falling in love on the first meeting? (marry, men, young)
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Good, now let it cool off and let her call you next.....trust me, if she doesn't like clingy guys....let her get in contact with you. If she really wants something out of this she will contact you....if not, then that's your answer anyway.
I wish you the best and I hope you do fall in love......
Too late. I just called her and told her I'm madly in love with her.
OK, I did call. But it was good I did. She is leaving town tomorrow evening, not the day after as I had originally thought. So my only chance to see her one more time is tonight. And she will call me to tell me whether she has time or not. I'm crossing my fingers, hoping she will.
awww how sweet are you.....I know, I get it....but you can't keep calling her! She told you she didn't like clingy guys right? So here you are calling her every day....has she called you since saturday night?
awww how sweet are you.....I know, I get it....but you can't keep calling her! She told you she didn't like clingy guys right? So here you are calling her every day....has she called you since saturday night?
No - but I did call her on Sunday.
Maybe it's just me but as the man in this situation I felt obligated to call after our meeting. And as I said, while she did not answer, she did write back via txt to acknowledge my call and voicemail.
Besides, tomorrow night she'll be out of here... so it's tonight or never.
I'm going to... and in fact we did already. we did more than just smile at each other on that night.
I think that she feels something with all your connection ,and she has the same feeling . It is easy for girls to feel the attention given by someone to them . If she does not like you , she will avoid you.
I think that she feels something with all your connection ,and she has the same feeling . It is easy for girls to feel the attention given by someone to them . If she does not like you , she will avoid you.
Well it did go from 2 friends to a date. And you know what people do on dates. We didn't need a motel room, but we did do more than just smile at each other or hold hands.
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you're not in love... it's just a phase you're going through
Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoned passion or love; addictive love. Infatuation usually occurs at the beginning of a relationship. It is characterized by urgency, intensity, desire, and/or anxiety, in which there is an extreme absorption in another. It is traditionally associated with youth. Limerence is a longer lasting form of infatuation that can have pathological consequences.
Maybe it's just me but as the man in this situation I felt obligated to call after our meeting. And as I said, while she did not answer, she did write back via txt to acknowledge my call and voicemail.
Besides, tomorrow night she'll be out of here... so it's tonight or never.
I know and I feel ya'......I think that's great you called her once after you met but how many times did you call her between that night and now? How many times did she call you? and text doesn't count. I think it's sweet how your longing for her and all but i'm telling you.....as one of those girls who does not like clingy guys......less is more.......leave her wanting more....not wanting a new phone number!
I know and I feel ya'......I think that's great you called her once after you met but how many times did you call her between that night and now? How many times did she call you? and text doesn't count. I think it's sweet how your longing for her and all but i'm telling you.....as one of those girls who does not like clingy guys......less is more.......leave her wanting more....not wanting a new phone number!
I HAD to call just now. She leaves tomorrow. I will be at work at the time her flight departs. If I do not manage to see her tonight, I will not see her again for quite a while.
I am intellectually cognizant of the fact that this might not work out; or, that this is nothing more than an infatuation (although I do not think it is); or, that she might tell me tonight that she doesn't do long-distance.
But I've learned that it's better to try and to fail than to fail to try. If I meet her tonight, tell her how I feel, and ask her if she'd give me a chance... and she says NO... then at least she and I can move past each other. And while I'll be sad, I'll know. Not knowing sometimes is torture.
I HAD to call just now. She leaves tomorrow. I will be at work at the time her flight departs. If I do not manage to see her tonight, I will not see her again for quite a while.
I am intellectually cognizant of the fact that this might not work out; or, that this is nothing more than an infatuation (although I do not think it is); or, that she might tell me tonight that she doesn't do long-distance.
But I've learned that it's better to try and to fail than to fail to try. If I meet her tonight, tell her how I feel, and ask her if she'd give me a chance... and she says NO... then at least she and I can move past each other. And while I'll be sad, I'll know. Not knowing sometimes is torture.
I understand where your coming from and I really wish you all the best. I hope it works out for you. I guess i just know how girls like that are.....here you are caring so much and trying so hard and, from what you described, she can't even give you an answer as to if she will let you see her tonight.....to me, that's no where near love. I knwo she's visiting and all but it just makes me mad that ppl can treat other ppl that way....if I felt something for a man and I was leaving the country the next day for a long time....I wouldn't care if I had a date with the pope.....I'd want to be with him.
I understand where your coming from and I really wish you all the best. I hope it works out for you. I guess i just know how girls like that are.....here you are caring so much and trying so hard and, from what you described, she can't even give you an answer as to if she will let you see her tonight.....to me, that's no where near love. I knwo she's visiting and all but it just makes me mad that ppl can treat other ppl that way....if I felt something for a man and I was leaving the country the next day for a long time....I wouldn't care if I had a date with the pope.....I'd want to be with him.
Just my crazy viewpoint I guess......
Best of luck.
I totally see what you're saying and I agree. She didn't say flat out no. her brother is a doctor and he's often on call and she said that depending on his work, she'd come out or not.
I know that this is rationalizing her behavior, but I speculate she wishes to spend her last night with her brother. But just now on the phone she was friendly and normal. I sensed no hesitation and no coldness.
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