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Ok, kids - not sure how many of you remember reading in June how my fiance and I went to SC to visit his Father who called him out of the blue to let him know he was dying from pancreatic cancer. Remember that? Remember how the new wife treated us horribly while there and then it ended up that they basically both wrote his two sons off and told my fiance that he had made up his mind to not speak to his kids when he married her.. blah blah blah -- ring a bell?
Well, the father passed away Thursday - on Sunday his brother finally got the call from the witch and then he had to call us to let us know. Even in his death, she didn't have the common courtesy to call his sons and let them know that their father died. Talk about just being wrong. What a horrible person she is.
Nice huh? Just wanted to update you guys and gals - my opinion of her has not changed and neither of us regret the trip down nor the words that had been spoken - my satisfaction lies in her living a lonely miserable existance now - trust me, she deserves it.
And no, I'm not being harsh - if any of you met her or all of you met her, not one of you would have an ounce of sympathy for this woman.
I hear ya girl....every family has at least one of those....in my case I was lucky enough to get a handfull...Yay me.
Anyway ~ they used to get under my skin like you wouldn't belive (well maybe you would) but I decided not to let them have that power and now I really just feel so sorry for them. It must really stink to lead such a sad life.......smile, be happy you are not like that!!!
Even in his death, she didn't have the common courtesy to call his sons and let them know that their father died. Talk about just being wrong. What a horrible person she is.
Wow, that's hard to believe!
Sorry for your FIL. Sounds like he was a decent person and you liked him.
a piece of advice, let your fiance grieve as he may.
it sucks that this woman alienated the father from his sons, your fiance might have some issues around that. be supportive, and focus on your fiances healing and not the evil step mom bashing.
i assume thats why you came to us with this right? so that he does not have to hear it. i hope so at least. thats the best thing to do. vent with us. not him. and let him grieve as he will. you continue to be supportive and good luck.
a piece of advice, let your fiance grieve as he may.
it sucks that this woman alienated the father from his sons, your fiance might have some issues around that. be supportive, and focus on your fiances healing and not the evil step mom bashing.
i assume thats why you came to us with this right? so that he does not have to hear it. i hope so at least. thats the best thing to do. vent with us. not him. and let him grieve as he will. you continue to be supportive and good luck.
Oh yes, absolutely. I've just left him alone about it. He did say though that his Dad had "been dead to him for a long time" - notably since she came into his life and alienated him - but it does take two, he (the FIL) could have made an effort and chose not to. Poor choice but we can't control how others live their lives, ya know?
But yes, I'm letting my fiance do his own thing and he's remarkably been fine I think due to his attitude for a long time now about the whole thing. The visit down to see him while in the hospital was really just obligatory - I think my fiance thought ok, he's in the hospital, better see him and make my last ditch effort which ended up being a big fiasco anyway. Oh well.
Anyhoo - all will be well, Karma is definitely alive!
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