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Old 08-25-2008, 01:48 PM
 
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My friend and i are both straight, we both have boyfriends. Her and i are like sisters and we've known eachother since 1st grade and have always been very close. We do NOT find other females attractive, but for some reason.... starting some time not far back in the past, her and i became curious and decided to experiment with eachother, so we did. Neither of us had ever been or even thought of being with a girl, we were jusr curious. But then after that, some time passed, and we still get urges, mostly strong urges to do things sexually related with each other again. We don't know what this means, and were very confused by it. We don't think of each other as a relationship partner, we just have those sudden urges to sleep together again. And we both have fantacies about doing things with eachother. Please help us... we don't know what this means or what we should do, any ideas or advice?
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Old 08-25-2008, 01:50 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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My friend and i are both straight, we both have boyfriends. Her and i are like sisters and we've known eachother since 1st grade and have always been very close. We do NOT find other females attractive, but for some reason.... starting some time not far back in the past, her and i became curious and decided to experiment with eachother, so we did. Neither of us had ever been or even thought of being with a girl, we were jusr curious. But then after that, some time passed, and we still get urges, mostly strong urges to do things sexually related with each other again. We don't know what this means, and were very confused by it. We don't think of each other as a relationship partner, we just have those sudden urges to sleep together again. And we both have fantacies about doing things with eachother. Please help us... we don't know what this means or what we should do, any ideas or advice?
Give me a break
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Old 08-25-2008, 01:52 PM
 
Location: SUNNY AZ
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lol......R U serious?

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Old 08-25-2008, 01:55 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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lol......R U serious?

wierd
Questions like this remind me of the bit that Chris Rock does regarding two women who approach him and want him to be the judge of an oral sex competition.
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Old 08-25-2008, 01:59 PM
 
Location: San Diego, CA
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My friend and i are both straight, we both have boyfriends. Her and i are like sisters and we've known eachother since 1st grade and have always been very close. We do NOT find other females attractive, but for some reason.... starting some time not far back in the past, her and i became curious and decided to experiment with eachother, so we did. Neither of us had ever been or even thought of being with a girl, we were jusr curious. But then after that, some time passed, and we still get urges, mostly strong urges to do things sexually related with each other again. We don't know what this means, and were very confused by it. We don't think of each other as a relationship partner, we just have those sudden urges to sleep together again. And we both have fantacies about doing things with eachother. Please help us... we don't know what this means or what we should do, any ideas or advice?
It's "she and I"..."she and I!" Geez!


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Old 08-25-2008, 02:08 PM
 
Location: SUNNY AZ
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Questions like this remind me of the bit that Chris Rock does regarding two women who approach him and want him to be the judge of an oral sex competition.
Hahahaha.....
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Old 08-25-2008, 02:09 PM
 
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The next time you think about sleeping with her....call your boyfriend and offer to share his bed. Tell her to do the same.

If you still want to sleep with her.....get a boyfriend that knows a bit more about such things.

If that doesn't work.....forget the boys and go with the girls.

And I suspect that both of you know exactly what is happening.
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Old 08-25-2008, 02:13 PM
 
Location: Cairo - Egypt
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I suggest to seperate for a while and don't see eath other at all until both of you can lose the urge and the desire. If you can not do that ,so you need to see a doctor or an expert who will analyse this situation for you.
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Old 08-25-2008, 02:13 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Hahahaha.....
There was a poster awhile back that was talking about how horny she was since her and her boyfriend broke up.

I always find when women blatantly use their sexuality to try and turn men on amusing.

Believe me I'm not a woman hater either
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Old 08-25-2008, 02:15 PM
 
Location: SUNNY AZ
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yea....some women have to try more than others obviously lol
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