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Just curious, as when I have a bad day my gf of 3 years doesnt really do anything to make it better, and if she does, its a pretty half-assed attempt (case in point, yesterday I was in an accident [my car was side swipped by an 18 wheeler], her idea of making my day better was for us to watch a chick flick, send me home without any TLC and then fight with me the next day because her "effort", or lack thereof didnt do anything to make my day better [she told me to go find a new gf if I wanted more])
So yea, I was just curious as to what you would do to make your SO have a better day or if the treatment I get is normal and I should just chill down and not expect so much...
ha..never think about this ...I don't remember how I handle it like in your situation.. for myself...usually i got a bad day...there is someway can make me feel happy, Hope it works for you if your gf don't make you feel better :
1. just go to sleep
2. Dancing
3. to play games in game center..you can play shooting guys..dancing in the dance manchine..or play basketball to win big toy...or drive the hitting car...etc.
4. Eatting -- order as much food you can ...eat all of them...this sound dumn..but it works on me sometimes...it is better you take them and eat at home..haha..then you won't scare people in the restaurant..
5. listening to music...my favourite
6. chatting with friends.
7. Talking to parents
8. Writing diary - not recommend..ha..in case..your scret will be found by others someday..
I tried all of them when i 'm in a bad mood. but I prefer people just leave me alone ..When i had a bad day...i come home and don't want to talk..just go to sleep...this is the way i most use..I feel much better after wake up..then i will say to myself : Life is always beautiful !
must be nice....i hope to find a girl like that one day...my girlfriend seriously sucks
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Why don't you turn your day around then by breaking up with her? YOU suck for badmouthing her in public.
Complaints about the situation are one thing, but...
And another thing? Why are you in a relationship if you aren't grown up enough to realize that you have to, for the most part, make your own happiness? If you expect someone to do something for you for every bad day you have, you're just acting like a baby and no one will want to be around you.
It sounds like you just expect her to read your mind. How about:
"Hey babe, I had a horrible day and I would be really grateful if you..."
It really doesn't matter how long you've been together. I've been with my bf for nearly 5 years and I don't typically drop to the level of:
"How dare you not know what I want! You suck, and I'm going to badmouth you to a bunch of people I don't know for not reading my mind!"
My parents have been together for 18 years, and they misinterpret each other daily. If you don't love your gf enough to deal with that, then tell her it's not going to work. Don't trash talk her on the internet. What a great bf you are.
I cook for him, I rub his back, I give him kisses all over, and I make him feel loved in every way. My SO will never feel bad after I'm through with him!
I cook for him, I rub his back, I give him kisses all over, and I make him feel loved in every way. My SO will never feel bad after I'm through with him!
A 3 mile run! Lift some weights, then play music for a couple of hours. Oh wait, I do that just about every day.
You must've missed the lil' fact the question wasn't about YOU!
Oh, never mind... guess you consider yourself your SO... that healthy trend many of us follow...
Last edited by sierraAZ; 09-08-2008 at 10:21 PM..
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