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OK, so pretty much like the title says my question is what is the best way/how a gal in her early 20's finds a friend with benefits? I have had two "relationships" (if you can call FWB that) before.. problem is every guy I have ever been involved with I met through work. That just isn't going to happen at my current job.
After the past 2 years of being in a aggonizing drama filled on/off relationship with the wrong guy all I really want right now is to take care of my needs (yeah I'll admit that) and go out a little. Just not the whole commitment thing. I need my space. Seems like I keep finding the guys that want commitment. (That's why I no longer have the two previous FWB's).
How do I weed out guys looking for the same thing???
Wow - being a woman in her 30s, which means I was once in my 20s
I'd say - just through a rock and you'll hit a guy who's happy to oblige. I had a bunch of them - they are EVERY where..
You can try like Yahoo Personals too, and although a guy will SAY they are looking for a relationship - if you lay it down like you don't - I don't think you'll get much resistance.
Or if you are daring - try Craiglist.
Or go to any bar, sporting event, grocery store etc etc
OK, so pretty much like the title says my question is what is the best way/how a gal in her early 20's finds a friend with benefits? I have had two "relationships" (if you can call FWB that) before.. problem is every guy I have ever been involved with I met through work. That just isn't going to happen at my current job.
After the past 2 years of being in a aggonizing drama filled on/off relationship with the wrong guy all I really want right now is to take care of my needs (yeah I'll admit that) and go out a little. Just not the whole commitment thing. I need my space. Seems like I keep finding the guys that want commitment. (That's why I no longer have the two previous FWB's).
How do I weed out guys looking for the same thing???
Women in general don't never have problems finding a guy for just sex.
Women in general don't never have problems finding a guy for just sex.
Sheesh, in my neck of the woods it's not very easy to come across anything likable even for these purposes , which is the reason I ended up importing my ex-husband from another state. Of course, I wasn't planning on a husband , but that's another can of worms... How can you not marry somebody soooo wonderful?!
sounds like a bad decision to me. The goal is to find guys that are reliable, mature, and into relationships...finding FWB is going in the opposite direction.
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OK, so pretty much like the title says my question is what is the best way/how a gal in her early 20's finds a friend with benefits? I have had two "relationships" (if you can call FWB that) before.. problem is every guy I have ever been involved with I met through work. That just isn't going to happen at my current job.
After the past 2 years of being in a aggonizing drama filled on/off relationship with the wrong guy all I really want right now is to take care of my needs (yeah I'll admit that) and go out a little. Just not the whole commitment thing. I need my space. Seems like I keep finding the guys that want commitment. (That's why I no longer have the two previous FWB's).
How do I weed out guys looking for the same thing???
And men that are just into sex are usually even more skum-like.
Puh-leez! The gal is looking for someone to have some fun with and nothing more. I have no doubt that she can find a guy looking for the same thing and that does not necessarily mean he's "skum-like."
Oh how I wish I was in my 20's again, single, and knew her number
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, which is the reason I ended up importing my ex-husband from another state. Of course, I wasn't planning on a husband 
