Ladies: Would you let your husband or BF photograph you nude? (wives, women)
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I never take pictures that I wouldn't want to be posted on the internet because I don't trust men like that.. he may do it later w/ out your permission, especially if he's already asking!! W/ that, do what you want I would just hate for someone I know to come across them somday!! O But some people don't mind that, and that's ok too! I have taken some w/ my bf on my own camera so I could ERASE lol.. it is fun!
LOL!!! Now that I'm married I may consider it, but when I was just dating people my answer was always "Heck No!!!!!" Almost all of the 3 guys I dated "seriously" before I dated my DH wanted to take pics of me like that, but I was not about to let stuff like that float around, not me! I don't want Paris Hilton style fame. No thank you!
Now that it's me and my husband though, even if they did "get out" somehow, what business is it of anyone else's? We are married and we do what we want to do. And I think it can be very classy!
LOL!!! Now that I'm married I may consider it, but when I was just dating people my answer was always "Heck No!!!!!" Almost all of the 3 guys I dated "seriously" before I dated my DH wanted to take pics of me like that, but I was not about to let stuff like that float around, not me! I don't want Paris Hilton style fame. No thank you!
Now that it's me and my husband though, even if they did "get out" somehow, what business is it of anyone else's? We are married and we do what we want to do. And I think it can be very classy!
Don't do and/or say anything you don't want out in the open after a nasty divorce. I know it seems unlikely or even impossible to you, but that's how it seems to almost everybody before it happens. There was even some quote to that effect - you get to know people when you divorce them.
I once dated a girl who wanted to take nude pictures of me. She was an artistic photographer who considered it more art than just photos. Even though I was in really good shape and proud/arrogant of what I had going on, I decided at the last minute not to do it.
Don't do and/or say anything you don't want out in the open after a nasty divorce. I know it seems unlikely or even impossible to you, but that's how it seems to almost everybody before it happens. There was even some quote to that effect - you get to know people when you divorce them.
I guess for me it's more of the fact that I would have been married to him at the time the pictures were taken. For some reason that makes me not worried about whether he chooses to show them to the world after we divorce. I would hope that he would be mature enough not to since we have one son already and a daughter who is due Jan 23rd. I definitely wouldn't be happy though if he did show them to people, but I can't say I would care too much. I don't really know why, but to me knowing that I have pure motives now makes whatever his actions would be really not matter.
I'd bet more are glad they didn't. It's hardly worth the potential risk. Not that it's such a big deal, but I'd still find it unpleasant to find myself, let's say, plastered all over the Web.
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Here is a cautionary tale: A friend of mine let her husband photograph her one night. They thought it was fun. Fast forward two years: They were going to move from Los Angeles to Chicago. Hubby decides to hide the photos in a bureau drawer. Movers come, pack up the house and move them to Chicago. A few weeks after they move, Hubby decides to take a look at those pictures. THEY WERE GONE. Only thing they could possibly imagine happened was that the movers somehow saw them and took them. She is terrified that some day, some where, those photos will show up on either the internet or in a skin mag.
NO WAY would I ever consider it after hearing that!! Can you imagine??
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I would just hate for someone I know to come across them somday!! 
O But some people don't mind that, and that's ok too! I have taken some w/ my bf on my own camera so I could ERASE lol.. it is fun!
