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True and I'm gay. I just observe people's attitudes from my standpoint and I wonder how marriage can actually happen these days. Most women these days are too freakin aggressive and cold-hearted. I wonder if they had some sort of abusive awful childhood to make them so cold and uncaring.
Hey, I had an abusive horrible childhood, and I am very caring and loving. I ended up with a man who was cold and selfish! He did not even like that I wore lingerie all the time, because he was jealous!
You are lucky that you still have that ability to care and love. Good for you.
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Originally Posted by Artsywoman
Hey, I had an abusive horrible childhood, and I am very caring and loving. I ended up with a man who was cold and selfish! He did not even like that I wore lingerie all the time, because he was jealous!
Despite the fact that I've had some pretty sorry relationships, and one broken engagement (cheater!), I still believe in marriage and I would not waste my time with a guy who doesn't want that eventually. If a guy doesn't want to get married, that's perfectly fine, but he won't be spending his nights with me. I appreciate men who are honest about their intentions up front because it saves me from wasting my time and I can move on before getting too attached. I wouldn't try to drag someone down to Macy's to pick out china patterns on the second date, but I will not spend years with someone who has no intention of getting married at some point.
My grandparents were married for 46 years, and 59 years. My parents just celebrated 43 years together. Sure, they all had their rough patches, but I can tell that after that many years, their love was/is real.
I'm also a very caring, very loving person. I probably give too much in some respects. My experience is that the cold hearted women seem to get guys to marry them easier than us "nice girls".
In this day and age marriage is a waste of time. Everyone cheats on everyone and the only people who are getting married is for the money. All the other guys tell me the same thing - don't get married it is a waste of time. "If the girl really loves you then she won't care if you are married or not." Makes perfect sense to me.
I won't bother getting married. Single and ready to mingle forever!
Thanks, but most of my guys have been horrid, abusive, except for one who was just a Republican!
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And I repped the chicken for that!
