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Originally Posted by Colddiamond102
Well...give him something else to badmouth..
Take a can of spray starch and starch his shorts 9(or something you've just brought back from the cleaners)
Let the air out of his tires ( a flat tire should give him something to complain about for ages)
Egg his car late at night so he can complain about the "people" that did it
Get up a bunch of cockleburs or sandspurs and put them in his shoes...
Cook him something to make him sick. If he's busy tossing his cookies, he cant complain at all...
Best of luck to you, dear. Just remember, there are subtle ways to make his life miserable without him placing the blame on you. Get out as soon as you can.
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Those are pretty cold, calculating ideas!! I LIKE them!!!
Add some ground up "Ex lax" to all his meals while your at it. That will keep him busy.
On a more serious note, although I feel terrible for you and the situation you are in, please remember that you are responsible for your daughters well being. If either of you are in danger of physical abuse, it is up to you, the adult, to protect yourself and your child immediately. There are options open to you if you choose to utilize them. Move in with a friend or relative or go to a shelter.
There are some who will not like this but I'll say it anyway. You are partially responsible for someone verbally abusing you when it has happened more than once.
If you put up with it, even once, you might as well hold up a sign the invites someone to do it again. I doubt that this just started out of the blue. There are always signs that someone is verbally abusive very early on. By not putting someone in check from the get go, you take the chance that they will think you are too spineless to stand up for yourself. I'm not trying to kick you while you are down but you need to stand up for yourself.
I'm sure there are things about this guy that you know that he won't want others to know. Tell him if he bad mouths you again, you will repeat that information to anyone who will listen and humiliate him.
Also, I have to ask where your family is when this is going on??? If my husband was stupid enough to bad mouth me to my family, he would find himself either kicked out of their homes or get the crap beat out of him. My brother chased down a guy who said something ugly to me once and beat the H**L out of him. Do you have a male relative who will stand up for you and let the jerk in your life know that his behavior will stop immediately???