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I would agree. Something about a pick through the nose... milk-storage units dragging on the ground... and 2 total teeth (even spaced unevenly) turns me off. And there's the no shave thing....
LOL, that reminds me of the TV show, Redneck weddings, where the bride lost her dentures and had to borrow her mothers...gag
I am a young, Black female and race doesn't matter to me. I think becuase I grew up in a very mixed neighborhood and attended schools and college where it was pretty diverse so I've learned not to look at a persons race and just find them attractive based on looks and personality. I will say when it comes to long term relationships, with men they have all been Black and with women (the few I have dated) were White, so I dont really discriminate by race, but maybe by sex (haha). But all jokes aside, I think its all a coincidence because the long term relationships were with people I grew up with and the shorter ones were people I met based on the city I was living in.
Be carefull. You have a lot going on..................
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Originally Posted by babigyrl5
I am a young, Black female and race doesn't matter to me. I think becuase I grew up in a very mixed neighborhood and attended schools and college where it was pretty diverse so I've learned not to look at a persons race and just find them attractive based on looks and personality. I will say when it comes to long term relationships, with men they have all been Black and with women (the few I have dated) were White, so I dont really discriminate by race, but maybe by sex (haha). But all jokes aside, I think its all a coincidence because the long term relationships were with people I grew up with and the shorter ones were people I met based on the city I was living in.
I'm a black female and even though I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a black guy (that turned out to be an a-hole), there is something about white guys that I adore. It definately has lots to do with going to a school that was about 98% white. I genuinely like them. What's funny is for the last 15 years or so, anytime I fantasize about sex...it's always with a white guy. I would love to have one again but it seems like they're kind of hard to come by too.
I really like the way you had to mention your as*hole boyfriend was black. I am not sure what that has to do with the question.
Nothing wrong with dating interacialy, but keep things in good taste. This is not about sharing your bad experiences with your own race...........
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I'm a black female and even though I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a black guy (that turned out to be an a-hole), there is something about white guys that I adore. It definately has lots to do with going to a school that was about 98% white. I genuinely like them. What's funny is for the last 15 years or so, anytime I fantasize about sex...it's always with a white guy. I would love to have one again but it seems like they're kind of hard to come by too.
I date outside my race because I don't see race as a factor in concidering whom I spend my time with. I am african american and my current boyfriend is asian. We did not seek each other out, our paths just happen to cross and we fell in love
I don't exclude anyone on the basis of race for dating or friendship. There are so many kinds of people that have so many wonderful qualities about them and I enjoy soaking all of it up.
The fact I date outside my race I attribute to growing up in mostly white neighborhoods, my sister marrying a white man, and going to mostly white schools. It doesn't mean I dislike my race, it's just what I've been accustomed to.
There are white guys that are great, and white guys that are jerks, just like black guys, Asian guys, etc. If you're a jerk, you're a jerk no matter what color you are. Dating interracally was something I was used to seeing my sister do it. I feel I have more things in comon with white men, and I am usually in situations that are almost all-white, restaurants, bars, ets. If that makes sense.
I also haven't encouuntered many black men that come up to me and start a conversation. It's always been white men that have been more forward in asking me out.
Usually, when I pass a group of black men, I get mostly cat calls or suggestive comments, but when I encounter a white man, he will smile and say hello, or start an actual conversation. this is why I feel I have more in common, I can communicate better with white men in certain situations, I think. IMO
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