Ok I DID IT

[MommyV]

Read this to give you an idea of what the kids might have to look forward to.

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[kittyhawk]

Originally Posted by MS. Confused

Why is everyone so set on me NOT having the children. I aleady told you , I AM A GOOD MOM. What makes anyone think that they are better off with him.

Are you kidding here? From what you have said, you are emotionally unstable and live a very selfish existence. How are those the charactersitics of a good parent? How can you possibly be setting a good example for you kids when you run away from your marraige for no reason other than to feel good.

Your descriptions of your husband lead me to believe he is a good man.

[driftwoodpoint]

I hope you will still counsel, well everyone should counsel in this family. This is a hard transition. Try to hold your tongue with your husband and give him the grace to get through this. Put yourself in his shoes and go easy on him. How you treat each other during this is such an example to your kids. If they see you are polite and want the best for them they will manage better.
I wish the best for your family....