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it could be a scam! thats home some ppl are, they build this online friendship/relationship n gets u interested n attached so they could scam you. Im not sayin she is a scamer but u'll never know. Just becareful.
ok can someone help me please? ok like six months ago i began talking to someone online through email messages. i live in london, she lives in california- we are both the same age (25). like a month ago she was in debt, her car payments and her house rent was two months overdue and she asked me if i could help her financially. i tried to help her, but as i only knew her online- the money couldnt transfer properly and i couldnt send anything. during this time i felt some emotional attachment to her that i couldnt control. we stayed in contact through emails and she suggested if we could talk through instant messages.
Well last week we spoke for the first time online through instant messages things felt awkward for some reason and after like 10 minutes she said something like ''well it was nice talking to you'' and i replied ''what are you going?'' and she replied ''yes'' and i havent heard from her again. i have a gut feeling that i may not hear from her again. i have seen her online almost every day this week, and have tried to say hello to her everytime i see her but she has not replied back to me. im concerned about her and i miss hearing from her, she has back problems and i want to know how she is doing and i also want to know if i did something wrong. what should i do? what should i think?
Don't ever send anyone on the internet money.
Ever.
The fact that she went cold on you means she is looking for someone who will give her the money she wants.
Beware of anyone asking you for money.
You knew nothing about her.
Nothing.
Everything she told you could have been a lie, and she played on your emotions to get money from you.
I think you were played & scammed. I would stop instant messaging her & cut all communications. I'm sorry you're hurting, but you deserve to be treated better.
She is probably a he. Living in Nigeria. With a pocket full of dumb peoples money. Using some Brazillian models picture to entice thos edumb people. I just saw this on dateline NBC or something.
She is probably a he. Living in Nigeria. With a pocket full of dumb peoples money. Using some Brazillian models picture to entice thos edumb people. I just saw this on dateline NBC or something.
I agree, theres a lot of scams coming in from Nigeria asking people for money and even telling people they love them and such things that the gullible belive.
ok can someone help me please? ok like six months ago i began talking to someone online through email messages. i live in london, she lives in california- we are both the same age (25). like a month ago she was in debt, her car payments and her house rent was two months overdue and she asked me if i could help her financially. i tried to help her, but as i only knew her online- the money couldnt transfer properly and i couldnt send anything. during this time i felt some emotional attachment to her that i couldnt control. we stayed in contact through emails and she suggested if we could talk through instant messages.
Well last week we spoke for the first time online through instant messages things felt awkward for some reason and after like 10 minutes she said something like ''well it was nice talking to you'' and i replied ''what are you going?'' and she replied ''yes'' and i havent heard from her again. i have a gut feeling that i may not hear from her again. i have seen her online almost every day this week, and have tried to say hello to her everytime i see her but she has not replied back to me. im concerned about her and i miss hearing from her, she has back problems and i want to know how she is doing and i also want to know if i did something wrong. what should i do? what should i think?
I have not read any of the responses yet but my initial reaction is that you should run for the hills the second someone you met online asks you to send them money. I would consider it a blessing that when you attempted to send money it would not go through.
It depends what is money for you. Few bills dont change much for you? If the woman which is on site for a long time asks for money it means that she needs a man which has money. There are lots of people, people come and go. Sending money sometimes meet to establish ties. I would never meet anyone for free, I need sucessful man. She would disappear, she would continue looking certainly so!
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