Help with ex (girl, love, kiss, college)

[riversdialect]

So i dated a girl through high school and into freshman year of college, and things didn't end all that amicably. we have talked off and on for the last few years, and every time we talk constantly (2-3 hours every night) for maybe 3 months, and then we eventually one of us gets frustrated that it's not going the way they want it. we've gotten to talking again, for the past 4 months, and she recently emailed me saying that she wanted to give it a try. we went on a date, and it went well, but not spectacularly. we kissed, but afterward she said she had a queasy feeling. now she wants to take some time and think about it... but has said that it wouldn't work because one of us wouldn't be all there, either way it goes (i wouldn't be all the way in to a friendship, she wouldn't be all the way in with a relationship). I really do love her as a friend, but i can't help feeling horrible if we're in contact and not a relationship... should i wait it out, or break it off completely? what bothers me the most is that i'm almost sure that she's everything i want... and i'm not sure if it's youth, naivety, or just stupidity that convinces me of that... or maybe it's the truth? if we can talk for 4 hours straight and it feels like 10 minutes, doesn't that show something?

[Huckleberry3911948]

shows you already made a good decision b4. break it off.

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

shows you already made a good decision b4. break it off.

Agreed. She`s playing head games with your emotions. Move on!

[JeepGirl118]

I can talk to a lot of people for 4 hours straight on a multitude of subjects. I can even hold a conversation with a tree. I am a talking machine. No, it doesn't show for anything much. Like they said above, you are being played with, consider packing it up and move on.