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I am an older woman (not a cougar, though!) in my 30's. I usually prefer older men, but I can't seem to find any that want anything serious. So what are you looking for? an older woman to fulfill your fetishes? an older woman to date? an older woman to do "kinky" things with?
what are your reasons for wanting an older woman? do you want someone who is mature and has had more life experiences than your current gf? I wonder if you are actually sincere in your post or are you just looking to fill a fantansy since you have a "thing" for older women. I notice you didn't say you really are interested in them because of maturity level or that they may be more or equally as established in a career as you claim you are.
If it's purely a fetish thing, kinky stuff, etc. then I'm sure there are plenty of websites you could just google and find that anywhere. "young guy seeks older mature woman for kinky sex" or something to that effect.
I wnat them for all-around maturity, sexual and otherwise.
People get hung up on the age thing too much. I've seen women that are 40 and are a total disaster area in every single aspect of their life and women that are 20 that are very mature and self sufficient. For me I just want to date women that are not basket cases and can have some fun and enjoy life. Whether they are 20 or 40 I couldn't care. I'm half way in between.
"leavingcali" I only meant to say that I was in my 30's. If I had left it at "I'm an older woman" then people would assume I was in my 40's or 50's.
Don't take it personal. I was only clearing up how old I was, responding to txguy's comment.
trust me, 30 is the new teens!!
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Originally Posted by leavingcali
30 years old is considered "older" now...geez. I wouldn't date you just for calling me an older woman. Boo!
Get used to it on this forum. Nothing you've said should have provoked such negative responses, but suffice to say most people on this forum are 1) Jealous of anyone who makes more than they do, which is virtually everyone successful, 2) Jealous of anyone who is good looking, so they like to call you shallow constantly or talk about how it's what's on the inside that counts (something only ugly people ever say, let's be honest, we all know the inside counts -- only ugly people have to repeat that cliche constantly), and 3) Anxious to knock you down a peg if they think you're happy or successful in your life.
You could date plenty of women who are 30, 32, whatever, no sweat. Don't even worry about it.
Just wondering what my chances are with an older woman, assuming it doesn't work out with current girlfriend. I've always had a thing for older women!
I'm attractive, humorous, intelligent, and 23 years old. I have a job waiting for me that pays around $200k per year in a major city.
I attended a prestigious law school, and can carry on mature convos for hours on end.
One potential downside: i'm kind of freaky sexually and like to try new things. Straight only though.
I am 37 and can match your money. How freaky??? LOL Maybe PM me???
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