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Old 01-04-2011, 01:21 PM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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There should be very little tongue, every now and then a surprise is nice but it's necessary to play tonsil hockey LOL I'd much rather sweet kisses on the lips, less tongue and more foreplay.
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Old 01-04-2011, 02:49 PM
 
Location: Coastal Mid-Atlantic
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There should be very little tongue, every now and then a surprise is nice but it's necessary to play tonsil hockey LOL I'd much rather sweet kisses on the lips, less tongue and more foreplay.
I like a little tongue action, not too much though. I usually let the girl set the pace on that and go from there. But sometimes kissing a long time with no tongue can be great. Sometimes moving over and kiss the side of her mouth a little and move down to just under her chin on the side of her neck and kiss up and down and then move back up to her mouth and continue on. Sometimes getting a wiff of her perfume to fuel the fire more. Tell me if this sounds strange. I dated this girl for a while. We use to kiss what seemed like for hours. We both seem to like the way we kissed. But sometimes we would be going good and she would try and slip a finger or two into the side of my mouth as we were going at it. Not cause I was doing something wrong. She was just into it that much sometimes. I never had another girl do that since. It was a bit strange, and she didnt do it all the time. I will say at times, it was nice.

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Old 01-04-2011, 03:10 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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There should be very little tongue, every now and then a surprise is nice but it's necessary to play tonsil hockey LOL I'd much rather sweet kisses on the lips, less tongue and more foreplay.

Absolutely. Some tongue use, then draw back, explore. Mostly soft teasing kisses but with fluctuation in the degree of intensity. Changing the angle and approach of the kiss from time to time. Some cheek rubbing , make her come to you when she is getting hot, then deliver again after teasing, then hold back a little again, nibble her ear some, let her smell your hair and the shampoo haha..

And use the hands to softly explore her curves , indulge and savior her curves. Let her hands explore too....

Time should feel like it stopped for both, like you are both on a temporary other level of being..



dayum!!!!!!!
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Old 01-04-2011, 03:28 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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The perfect date with a perfect gentleman. We went back to his place. We kissed. My entire cheek was wet. Not moist. I'm saying my face was so wet the face cream was washed off. I'm saying I looked into my purse to get a tissue.

I didn't see him again.

Dude, swallow a little.
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Old 01-04-2011, 03:33 PM
 
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A good kisser is highly sought after... It is a good skill to have especially if you're a man. Now fellas u might disagree with me and I don't know this to be a fact, all my female (gal-pals) friends say they are good kissers and most I suspect believe they were born that way, but guys always gotta learn.
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Old 01-04-2011, 03:53 PM
 
Location: state of procrastination
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What? for me it's always the girl messing around in my mouth with her tounge first, If i let her in up here I wanna be let in somewhere else.
To the darkest, most secret recesses of her mind?
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Old 01-04-2011, 05:01 PM
 
Location: Coastal Mid-Atlantic
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Default Kissing

Here is a story that happened when I was about 16. I was at my friends house one day, along with another friend that use to come down during the summer, ( We live on the water with a lot of summer rental cottages in the neighborhood, but we lived there year round). The three of us were at my friends house, he had a sister that was about 15 I think, younger but taller and older for her age, if that sounds right. The friend that come down during the summer had a crush on this guys sister.He would get all giddy asking about her and talking about her. She was nice looking with long brown hair, usually with her hair in 2 long braids, nice. One day we were in the livingroom, and he would say, where is she, that is all he had to say, we knew who he ment. Well this day my friend said, she is in her bedroom, (the next room), go in and talk to her. He was a timid guy and we egged him on to go see her. He finally did. He was in there a few minutes and came out, all red faced. A few minutes went by and he said I kissed her. He was all excited. We talked a bit and I said Im going to go in there and show how its done. We were all competitive at the time, sports, motorcycles, fishing. I went into her room, she was lying back on her bed reading a book, she sat up when I walked in. I sat down beside he, took the book from her hands and laid it on the bed and said let me show you how to kiss, I kissed her, She put her arms around me and we went at it. It went on for a few minutes, and she kissed good. I pulled away, got up and walked out. As I was leaving she smiled, watched me as I walked out as she picked up her book to go back to reading. I got back in the livingroom and said I kissed your sister. The one guy that has a crush on her couldnt believe it. The funny thing, come to find out, when he went into her room, he didnt kiss her, he was too afraid to. We had a big laugh. From then on everytime I saw my friends sister, which wasnt very often, she would always smile at me, just because of those few minutes.

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Old 01-04-2011, 05:13 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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Old 01-04-2011, 05:23 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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A good kisser is highly sought after... It is a good skill to have especially if you're a man. Now fellas u might disagree with me and I don't know this to be a fact, all my female (gal-pals) friends say they are good kissers and most I suspect believe they were born that way, but guys always gotta learn.

Well I dunno I'd have to kiss your gal pals to say for sure. But no, not all women are good kissers. I have met a couple that weren't. I remember one time on a first date we were locking lips in the corner of a bar after shooting some pool and she stuck her tongue down my throat so hard that I was gasping that it was neither sensual or enjoyable.

When I was 20? I think I went on a one time date with a girl named Milena and when I went to kiss her she said whoa wait, you are doing it all wrong, and she showed me how. At first it bruised my ego, because up until then I thought I had been good because no other girl ever complained but I went with it and she taught me the basics of soft, sensual kisses with exploring. She said a "older" guy had taught her lol. After that I only got better and I am 90% confident that when I do a kissing session with a woman now she will say say "whoa" as in dayum you are good boy.

My regret is I didn't follow up on Milena cause she was hot and curvy like alot of latinas are and the first date went well but being 20 I just had a whatever attitude and my band was always my priority. Gawd I messed up....I should have made more time for her.

BTW I may know I am a king at kissing but getting down to sex like ugh oral wise, I don't feel completely confident because I am picky who I would do that with and haven't done it with that many girls, and a couple of the girlfriends just didn't seen to be enjoying it and wouldn't give hints to make it better, why they wouldn't I don't know.

So boy or girl, give hints if needed, it will benefit both from there....
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Old 01-04-2011, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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BTW I may know I am a king at kissing but getting down to sex like ugh oral wise, I don't feel completely confident because I am picky who I would do that with and haven't done it with that many girls, and a couple of the girlfriends just didn't seen to be enjoying it and wouldn't give hints to make it better, why they wouldn't I don't know.
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