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Old 08-06-2009, 05:38 PM
 
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If you meet someone; and you fall in love, that person did not change. Your new information did not change that person. Were you really in love? Were you just infatuated? If you are really in love , you will still be in love.
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Old 08-06-2009, 06:10 PM
 
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Awwwoooohhhhhh, I don't know what I would do, I know I would not stay - but that would really be a bad day.
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Old 08-06-2009, 06:27 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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You meet someone, you fall in love, and you find out your true love is a Transexual? What would you do? Keep in mind, you are in love. Perhaps, this is the love you have been waiting for. Maybe, at first, you thought this person was a "little different," but didn't give it a second thought. You realized you had a lot in comon. It turns out, one of the reasons you get along so well, is because that person understands what it was like to be the same gender you are. What would you do?
Most transexuals sort of look a little different to begin with!
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Old 08-06-2009, 06:58 PM
 
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I wonder how it can be "true love" if there was a very big deception involved. I pray that I'm never in that situation, but I'd have a feeling I'd bail.
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Old 08-06-2009, 07:03 PM
 
Location: Omaha
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You meet someone, you fall in love, and you find out your true love is a Transexual? What would you do? Keep in mind, you are in love. Perhaps, this is the love you have been waiting for. Maybe, at first, you thought this person was a "little different," but didn't give it a second thought. You realized you had a lot in comon. It turns out, one of the reasons you get along so well, is because that person understands what it was like to be the same gender you are. What would you do?
They would find themselves in a civil suit from hell.
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Old 08-06-2009, 07:32 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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You meet someone, you fall in love, and you find out your true love is a Transexual? What would you do? Keep in mind, you are in love. Perhaps, this is the love you have been waiting for. Maybe, at first, you thought this person was a "little different," but didn't give it a second thought. You realized you had a lot in comon. It turns out, one of the reasons you get along so well, is because that person understands what it was like to be the same gender you are. What would you do?
I'd cut my losses and move on. I'd feel deceived and my true love wouldn't do that.
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Old 08-09-2009, 08:14 PM
 
Location: Upstate NY
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IMO, love is love. If the person I love turns out to be transsexual then oh well, so what?
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Old 08-10-2009, 02:12 AM
 
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When we fall in love, we are really falling in love with our fantasy of who that person is. That is why so many marriages don't work, because we marry the person in our minds, and then reality hits and the person in our mind does not match the actual spouse we married.

So this is no surprise.

Practically, do you want to have a relationship with a transsexual? He was never honest with you in the 1st place. Would that bother you that he led you on with a lie?

You can continue to honor your loving feelings but you do not have to move forward in the relationship if it doesn't suit you. That doesn't mean that love wasn't real. It was real as far as you perceived it to be. Just that he did not end up being the wonderful woman you had pictured in your mind.

All relationships are just virtual reality in a way.
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Old 08-13-2010, 02:24 PM
 
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I just woke up from a dream where I fell in love with a tranny. It was THE best dream I ever had. Just before I woke I we were having that, u know its true love kisses, i want to go back to sleep . But even tho this thread is old, i must said, it'd make me fall head over heels for her, especially if she fooled me that long, shes gotta be a looker :P
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Old 08-13-2010, 02:29 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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You meet someone, you fall in love, and you find out your true love is a Transexual? What would you do? Keep in mind, you are in love. Perhaps, this is the love you have been waiting for. Maybe, at first, you thought this person was a "little different," but didn't give it a second thought. You realized you had a lot in comon. It turns out, one of the reasons you get along so well, is because that person understands what it was like to be the same gender you are. What would you do?
What did you do? Or better yet, what did the person who fell in love with you do when they found out you are transexual?
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