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He can get in my pants anytime he likes. But if he did something that get's me angry, I want that apology.
You'll get it, no worries.
It's like telling a child: "Say sorry for breaking a toy. You must say sorry."
They will say sorry just to get what they want and will not mean. But hey, as long as those 3 magic words came out, who cares right?
I had a big problem regarding this. My ex always used to upset me and hurt me and then say sorry, but only for her to do it again at a later time. And it was an endless cycle. It really ****ed me up in the head at the time.
It's like telling a child: "Say sorry for breaking a toy. You must say sorry."
They will say sorry just to get what they want and will not mean. But hey, as long as those 3 magic wordis came out, who cares right?
Yup, that's how it works for me.
On the other hand, my husband is very very easy - All I need to do is talk about what I'll do with him and PRESTO! like magic I am absolved of all wrong-doing
All kidding aside, I wish it was always that easy, but it does work the great majority time.
On the other hand, my husband is very very easy - All I need to do is talk about what I'll do with him and PRESTO! like magic I am absolved of all wrong-doing
All kidding aside, I wish it was always that easy, but it does work the great majority time.
Eh, to each its own.
I never ask for apologies, and I never withhold sex before getting one. I'd be crazy to do it, why punish myself when I'm already pissed off? Usually a good session does a trick for me, better than any apology. And as a result, if my husband ever apologizes, is when he really really means it and truly feels remorseful for upsetting me.
Otherwise, he can shove his fake apologies up his butt and that goes for everyone.
I had a big problem regarding this. My ex always used to upset me and hurt me and then say sorry, but only for her to do it again at a later time. And it was an endless cycle. It really ****ed me up in the head at the time.
That is a horrible cycle to be in and speaks of a mucher deeper problem in her, way beyond what she is actually repeatedly apologizing for.
No need to apologize, it won't work. I'm a married woman for crying out loud.
Ok sorry.
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