What are to many partners for girls to sleep with? (pregnancy, friend)
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so you know for sure the partners she has been with.you are practicing casual sex right? for sure no high risk people in her background. a person just just met in a bar told you that?. you can only get AIDS from direct contact with high risk people?. what does a high risk person look like? do they wear a bandana or something?
IV drug abusers are mainly concentrated in the lower black and hispanic neighborhoods. The rate of women who actually sleep with bisexual men is extrememly small.
As far as bars and clubs 1 in every 2000 women could have HIV who frequent the bar/club scene.
I would be much more afraid of catching herpes or another incurable STD than catching HIV because a break in the skin is needed to catch HIV, while just being in contact with the legions of a person with herpes is all that is needed.
A man needs open sores on his penis to catch HIV from an infected woman, without open sores, studies say it is virtually impossible for a man to catch it from intercourse with a woman. However women catch it easier from men and than men catch it from women.
You have to know your partners and practice safe sex, which I do but more people died from other illnesses annually and catch STDs than die from AIDS.
You cannot look at a person and tell if they have AIDS but during the 1980s, the media on purposely made heterosexuals overly and ridiculously paranoid about catching AIDS.
I got my information from Micheal Fumento's "The Myth of Heterosexual AIDS". Heterosexuals do catch it from one another but having a few partners hardly puts you at risk for catching HIV. Being promiscuous does not put you at risk for catching HIV, but WHO you sleep with is more important.
It is actually safer to sleep with 100 people from the low risk groups than to sleep with 4 people from the high risk groups,that consist of bisexual men, homosexual men and male and female IV drug abusers and the rare hemophiliac.
I'm 37, recently divorced after almost 20 years, and I can count my past partners on my left hand. Someone said at my age around 15-20? Oh boy, I have my work cut out for me and I don't even want an involvement with a man right now.
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In today's society it is more acceptable for a man to have multiple sex partners and be seen as a lady's man, a stud rather. But if a woman has also as many a partner she's seen with different eyes. She's seen as an easy woman to say the least. Everybody may not agree with this but it is true.
yes, we all know what "they"/society/tv has to say. But no one can answer WHY that is.
a simple question no one can answer. What woman would want a male "ho" who's been with 1000's of women?? it goes both ways.
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Originally Posted by Mr.Cat
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The comment you are about to read is purely for educational purposes. The poster is not responsible in any way if it is taken the wrong way.
In today's society it is more acceptable for a man to have multiple sex partners and be seen as a lady's man, a stud rather. But if a woman has also as many a partner she's seen with different eyes. She's seen as an easy woman to say the least. Everybody may not agree with this but it is true.
just curious, babe! I know it's double standard, but thought there was a reason besides what society says.
I wouldn't want to be with a guy that had over 3000 women. Gross!!!!!
I don't blame you. I can't imagine any girl would be turned on by that fact, haha. But I mean other guys would certainly judge a guy like that to be "The Man." Sure, some guys would say (especially in female company) that he was "a man-w***e" or whatever, but in reality every guy is thinking, wow, that guy is a stud! How could I be like him? Not that I personally have any desire to sleep with 3,000 women, nor do most guys probably, but the idea that it comes so easily to him, that's appealing and makes any guy realize there's an alpha male. If a girl does that, every other girl just thinks, "God, what a s1ut!" haha.
As for WHY that is, well, guys value the conquest, and whatever society wants to say about men and women being the same and really we're all just people, blah blah nonsense blah blah etc., the fact is guys are not that different than they were thousands of years ago. They are conquerors and hunters.
yes, we all know what "they"/society/tv has to say. But no one can answer WHY that is.
a simple question no one can answer. What woman would want a male "ho" who's been with 1000's of women?? it goes both ways.
Let's just say "It's Just The Way Things Are".
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