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Old 11-25-2008, 06:31 PM
 
Location: twin cities
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i dont understand divorce women, i'm 28 single, no children. i met a divorced 35 year old in a mall one weekend. conversation was great on the phone and at the mall but once we went on a date she became like another person! very stand offish, and throwing one liners. after that date i decided not to call her because she made it clear to me she wasn's feelin me. granted i wasnt considering marriage by no means seeing she had 2 kids already i jus found her very attractive well rounded, and intriguing. infact even on the date she was the one who brought up sex first. about 3 weeks ago the samething pretty much happened with another one. except she was 29, 1 kid, and not as gorgeous but lovable if you get my point!! she had the biggest attitude problem i ever saw! i meet her through a guy friend of mind who was trying to date her friend. i tried my best to treat this lady with class and respect but she was acting like a real youknow what! i left when i felt like i wouldnt be considered a lame a$$ jerk, i even caught a cab home so she wouldnt have to give me a ride!! but just yesterday my friend said she asked about me and made a comment that i'm different. but i'm def not interested after the first meeting and like isaid looks arent everything but she wasnt that hot any way! so is it me or whats the deal with divorce women? are you guys on a bitter quest
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Old 11-25-2008, 06:35 PM
 
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Maybe they can tell you're not serious about dating a woman with kids, and are then pissed that they paid a babysitter to waste their time on you.
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Old 11-25-2008, 06:36 PM
 
Location: southern california
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good observations. its goes much further than divorce (50% divorce rate)
the endless sea of meaningful relationships bears fruit ------ and that fruit is bitterness instability and lots of angry baggage. she is not getting what she needs and wants. expectations are not being met. and getting madder by the minute. the cash she got from the settlement did not fix it did it. the great american illusion, its all about money.
but so you can use your hunting skills more efficiently
here is a recent survey results on sexual frequency for women with kids
60% 1x a week
30% 1x a month
5% never
5% wild variations
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Old 11-25-2008, 06:37 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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The problem is not divorced women, it's just "some" women in general. "Some women" are just bitter man haters who drag baggage around with them and make every man out there pay for the previous man's mistakes.
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Old 11-25-2008, 06:48 PM
 
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^^ this
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Old 11-25-2008, 06:53 PM
 
Location: Earth
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You will find bitter women everywhere if that is who you are attracting (single, divorced, with kids or without)
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Old 11-25-2008, 07:14 PM
 
Location: twin cities
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yhea but i'm not bitter, i'm mature enough to know that if you date a woman with kids its a pakage deal. i hate to sound like a jerk but i'm not trying to jump in blind fold into raising someone else's kids. there's no gaurantee that the realationship is even going anywhere so why should i meet the kids? i would be nice and watch her kids if we built the relationship up to that point, but i'm a little territorial and it eats me up on the inside that she has kids by another man.
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Old 11-25-2008, 07:20 PM
 
Location: Earth
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but i'm a little territorial and it eats me up on the inside that she has kids by another man.
Well then you might want to consider sticking to women without children.

If you do date a single mom, I would hope you are with one with enough sense to keep the children out of the picture for the first part of your relationship.
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Old 11-25-2008, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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... i'm a little territorial and it eats me up on the inside that she has kids by another man.
Then don't date women who have kids!
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Old 11-25-2008, 09:08 PM
 
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Maybe they can tell you're not serious about dating a woman with kids, and are then pissed that they paid a babysitter to waste their time on you.
Hilarious!!! No woman would be pissed for that. They'd dump the guy early and go get hooked up with some friends.
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