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Old 11-03-2011, 08:05 AM
 
Location: NY
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I would think (as a guy) telling a woman who asks about experience that I will not talk about it would raise a big flag. The woman would think something is up, or something is being hidden since, when considering an intimate relationship, the question is important. (Not necessarily to guage experience as much as knowing whether someone is clean).
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Old 11-03-2011, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Santa Ana
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While that may well be true, it also seems to be true that women are more likely to say that they're going to wait than men are (as a whole/in general). However, I concede that this is opinion without "fact".
yeah that is understandable, because society, the media, culture, always pressure males to lose their virginity by a certain age, meanwhile girls be be a virgin for a much longer time and people would not care
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Old 11-04-2011, 06:29 PM
 
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I kinow that some guys like a virgin lady (I think). Well I am a 22 yr. old male virgin. Do girls find this weird? I am not un-attractive, I am 6-3 180. So that is not it. I just have not felt like I 'needed' to 'lose' it. Would girls be more attracted to that fact, or would it be a 'Holy cow stay away from that guy' kind of feeling. Also, I am MORE than willing to wait until I am married until I actually 'complete' the act. Ladies, what say you?
Frankly, not because you need to...but, by losing it you gain (if that makes sense.) Most women including me would prefer Jondalar...oy vey!
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Old 11-04-2011, 06:47 PM
 
Location: Metro Phoenix
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Eh, at the end of the day, I don't think most women really care that much. Even the ones "saving themselves," which often ends up failing wonderfully and loudly in their early 20's.

In my experience, they like... experience. Like, they want to be shown that their bodies can do things that they had know idea they can do.

If you are a virgin, you should at least be able to bust some moves like this dude (watch from .45 to at least 1.20):


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Old 06-14-2012, 07:34 PM
 
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i really like the fact your a virgin its sweet and a turn, i personally love virgins
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Old 06-14-2012, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Alexandria, VA
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My friend's husband was a virgin when she married him, and he was 30 when they got married.

It's just another opportunity for women to train a man to their liking.
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Old 06-14-2012, 09:34 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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good luck trying to find a woman that won't judge you for this.
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Old 06-14-2012, 10:47 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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I kinow that some guys like a virgin lady (I think). Well I am a 22 yr. old male virgin. Do girls find this weird? I am not un-attractive, I am 6-3 180. So that is not it. I just have not felt like I 'needed' to 'lose' it. Would girls be more attracted to that fact, or would it be a 'Holy cow stay away from that guy' kind of feeling. Also, I am MORE than willing to wait until I am married until I actually 'complete' the act. Ladies, what say you?
I would go get a check up at the doctors and get your testosterone level checked. 22 and not tempted??
Just saying, you might have other problems if it is too low.

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Old 06-15-2012, 05:53 AM
 
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Hell no. Women want a guy with experience that knows what he's doing. To the average woman

If a mans a virgin after a certain age=Something must be wrong with him

And theyll want nothing to do with him
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Old 06-15-2012, 05:58 AM
 
Location: around racist white people
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Hell no. Women want a guy with experience that knows what he's doing. To the average woman

If a mans a virgin after a certain age=Something must be wrong with him

And theyll want nothing to do with him
True I think a soft, weak man looks worse than a virgin does to women.
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