Does your significant other get mad for everything?
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Sometimes, that can be a sign of a very ill-matched couple. You may not be loved by your mate like you should be Or perhaps, it is a disorder of some sort, or sugar issue.
No, but I used to be like that. About 10 years ago, I would be fine & then just flip out over the stupidest things. Now, granted some of it was attributed to pms...BUT I discovered quite by accident that my body couldnt tolerate sugar. The more sugar & sweets I ate the bitchier I became. I tried the Atkins low carb diet & found that without sugar, i was really a sweet person underneath.
Or.... she just might not like you..... just kidding..
I don't think suggesting she go on a special diet would be taken lightly, given her temper and all that...
I used to be like that years ago when I was with the wrong person...we had nothing in common, our ideals were opposite, the way I felt about having a clean house was not important to him, I liked chocolate he liked vanilla, etc. So I tried to change to accommodate him and I was always miserable/mad. It took quite a bit of soul searching to come to this realization that for my sanity and his safety, I needed to leave.
I have that same problem my husband flipped out on me today because i asked to go fishing with him he says no and makes the excuse that we have our 7month old with us . I said we went last week with the baby and she didn't bother anything and mabe its just because he dont want me coming along with him just to be honest . He got super mad and said i try to control him. Im not even alowed to leave the house when he is not home. I swear i love him to death but i have to walk on eggshells around him and its hard for me to keep my mouth shut when i think im right. So i apologized and it still wasnt good enough he took off and turned off his cell phone...suspicious right..but everytime he gets mad he leaves and is pissed off for days...it could be something as little as pending 5 dollars at a dunkin donuts and he yells tells me to eat **** and takes off!!! Idk wut im gonna do..i dont have the strength to leave ...but i feel so all alone and stuck in the house...i have no friendz i have no one just him!!! True story!
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Yes, I and my now ex both used to be this way. I couldn't stand the way it was making me feel and tried to pull us out of it. All I could save was myself and move on. 14 years later he's still angry about everything. But he's apparently happy that way. Some people are.
Your wife's problem may stem from hormone imbalance, sugar problems, or medications that she may be taking.
My husband is a perfectionist and in a very imperfect world this often results in frustration which comes out as anger. I know that it is not directed at me, so I just take a deep breath and let him rant and rave. He is a good guy, it is just hard for him to live in a world where lots and lots of people are idiots. LOL
20yrsinBranson
Have you looked into the possibility that he might have OCPD?? Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder??
I have to admit that I am like that sometimes and I am fortunate to have a husband who understands. I do try my best not to take it out on him though I don't always succeed. If she's anything like me the best thing to do is to ask her if she wants to have some "me time" for awhile it might be just what she needs. Also If she thinks you don't want to be around her because of her tude she might change it. Has she told you what's wrong and you just choose to have selective hearing? It's a guy thing and it pisses me off to no end when my husband does it.
Sometimes it seems im walking on pins and needles with wifey, it seems she gets mad because the freakin sun comes up sometimes, her temper is uncontrollable sometimes, do ant of you have a parter like this?>
Maybe her hormones are wacky. Maybe she had a bad childhood. Maybe she expects you to read her mind and when you don't, she gets angry. Maybe you should talk to her and find out how you can help her to be more relaxed.
Sometimes it seems im walking on pins and needles with wifey, it seems she gets mad because the freakin sun comes up sometimes, her temper is uncontrollable sometimes, do ant of you have a parter like this?>
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