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View Poll Results: How often do you get it on? MARRIED/ Live In LTR of 1 year + ONLY
7 times + per week 6 7.89%
4 - 6 times per week 16 21.05%
2 - 3 times per week 21 27.63%
Normally around once a week 17 22.37%
Twice a month'ish 3 3.95%
Once a month'ish 4 5.26%
Once every couple of months 3 3.95%
Special Occassionas (Birthdays/ Anniversarys) 0 0%
Less than 4 times per year 6 7.89%
Voters: 76. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-02-2008, 04:26 PM
 
Location: USA
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The Italian family dynamics must've rubbed off on you anyway... It’s not only about genetics. It’s often said most of us subconsciously try to recreate the relationship observed in our original families.
One time I heard my parents having sex and I literally cried in my room and about it to my friend on the phone, after I uncovered my ears. I was beyond mortified. That is really some scary chit. Has very little to do with anything. Just thought I would share.
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Old 12-02-2008, 04:37 PM
 
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I was with my ex for 5 years before we split, and we normally did the deed at least once a day. Even if we were fighting...going to sleep angry was simply not possible. It was really the very best part of our relationship.
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Old 12-02-2008, 08:11 PM
 
Location: Arkansas
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Jealous of Jeep!
My hubby and I are down to weekends since he is traveling so whenever we can find the time Friday through Sunday, we go at it!
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Old 05-28-2009, 07:03 AM
 
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you guys have such interesting and great sex lives, mines is kinda sad me and my man started off at twice a day and now i'm lucky if i get it once a week sometimes it's as long as 3 weeks and we have only been together for a year and a half he doesn't even like porn and it's really hard during one of our arguments about this subject we talked about the possibility of me leaving him, but i dont want to hurt his feelings, i just think he isn't even trying anymore like he doesn't even care.
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Old 05-28-2009, 07:54 AM
 
Location: middle of everywhere
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Wow I cannot fathom living with someone and having weeks go by without having sex. I think I would just pack my bags and move out at that point because I'd believe they were getting it somewhere else.

Even if we were angry at each other we would have sex then turn our backs on each other and go to sleep. That rarely happened though. By the time it was over I figured whatever I was angry about wasn't such a big deal. Boy, I sure do miss though days.

My ex and I did it almost everyday. If there wasn't actual intercourse, there were other sexual activities used as substitutes which he had NO problem with at all.

I wanted to make sure whoever came after me had big shoes to fill. Haha
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Old 05-28-2009, 03:52 PM
 
Location: NW Montana
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Almost 12 years here, and we sneak it in 2-3 times a week. I say "sneak" as we have two young children that make it difficult to find any alone time.
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Old 05-28-2009, 03:58 PM
 
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we had sex 4 times a week the entire 13 years we were married, except for a couple months after the babies were born. That includes 6 years with no kids, and 7 years with 3 little kids. Then we got divorced.
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Old 05-28-2009, 04:12 PM
 
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One time I heard my parents having sex and I literally cried in my room and about it to my friend on the phone, after I uncovered my ears. I was beyond mortified. That is really some scary chit. Has very little to do with anything. Just thought I would share.
LOL that's funny!

as a little kid my parents would shut the bedroom door and "take naps" on Sunday afternoon and we had to be quiet. Later I figured out they were in there doing it. Nothing grosser than picturing your parents doing it. yikes.

then when I had kids myself once when my son was about 2 he toddled into the bedroom early one morning while we were under the covers doing it, and all of a sudden I hear this happy little voice asking, "Can I play the bouncy game too?" It was hilarious. He couldn't see us, since we were entirely under the covers, but he could sure tell there was something fun going on and he didn't want to be left out!
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Old 05-28-2009, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Logan Square
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Geez, lots of people in this post have lots of sex or at least are claiming to
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Old 04-20-2010, 01:02 PM
 
Location: Some where North of South Jersey
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I would do my at the time GF a daily basis, but as she got larger I just couldn't do her anymore. Sad to say but if your not attracted to the person the sex just stops... at least for me it did. I didn't touch her for a few years after she got to the 200 mark, I was ok from the wt she was up until 160 from 160 to 235 hmmm not so much. Last I seen her she was a good 45 lbs bigger.
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