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More so than men than for women, "hot" is a relative term. I would much rather be with a woman who is a little overweight, wears glasses and is unkept with a brain than be with a woman who's "hot" but is so dumb she stared at her orange juice for fifteen minutes because the box said "concentrate" and when I ask her what her favorite period in history was she gives me a blank look and says "you mean like,what tampon or something?"
In case you haven't been paying attention, dumb girls tend to have this blank look on their faces that MAKES THEM UGLY no matter what else they may or may not have going on for them. And most of the time it's the girl with the 500 dollar out fit who obviously throw up her corn flakes every borning who has that look of absolute lack of intelligence. .
You imply in your posts that being hot and smart are mutually exclusive. Actually, there are plenty of hot women who are also intelligent. Since you've said you've never been on a date, I suspect you just haven't been around any to know this. Hairspray and being tacky does not turn someone dumb, though I agree that look is low class and not attractive; I think many of us agree with that. And not all girls with big boobs have fake ones, so its insulting for you to act like all women who are attractive or with a large cup size are dumb and/or fake.
You need to open your mind up a little.. Maybe if you do, and you're less negative, you will find yourself on a date.
You imply in your posts that being hot and smart are mutually exclusive. Actually, there are plenty of hot women who are also intelligent. Since you've said you've never been on a date, I suspect you just haven't been around any to know this. Hairspray and being tacky does not turn someone dumb, though I agree that look is low class and not attractive; I think many of us agree with that. And not all girls with big boobs have fake ones, so its insulting for you to act like all women who are attractive or with a large cup size are dumb and/or fake.
You need to open your mind up a little.. Maybe if you do, and you're less negative, you will find yourself on a date.
Exactly! The larger cup size I have (DD) doesn't make ME dumber, it makes guys AROUND me dumber!!!
I agree. Good post. Sex is very overrated and virtually useless unless you want kids.
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Of course sex is overrated. I mean it's good and all but you wouldn't engage in sex for purely logical reasons, unless you wanted kids, which I think is an illogical desire anyway, but that's a point for another topic. Sex is great and all, it's fun, but it's not worth the risks people take for what is ultimately a few seconds of great pleasure and the rest just fun. It's like if someone jumped through a million hoops and risked getting horrible diseases just to see a movie, you'd have to wonder about that person. But for some reason with sex people do this all of the time and it's considered normal. That's mainly because 99% of humanity is not much better than any other animal species -- they are controlled by instincts and hormones, rather than taking control of their instincts and nature with their minds and rational reasoning power. It's a shame, really. A human being can be like a god, a master of his own destiny, yet most people squander that potential and are little more than glorified animals with cars and clothes.
I agree. Good post. Sex is very overrated and virtually useless unless you want kids.
It's sad that you and others above believe that artsy. Sex in the context of love is one of the greatest gifts we've ever been given! I hope one day all of you can learn that and have it in your lives. Sex for the sake of sex alone is what leaves you feeling the way most of you feel about it, and I really feel sorry for you all.
Thank you so much for your pity. You are just too too kind.
I feel so so sorry for myself.
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It's sad that you and others above believe that artsy. Sex in the context of love is one of the greatest gifts we've ever been given! I hope one day all of you can learn that and have it in your lives. Sex for the sake of sex alone is what leaves you feeling the way most of you feel about it, and I really feel sorry for you all.
All in all, if I had been asexual it would have avoided a lot of grief. I am nearer the end of this life than the beginning and it can't be known how it would have been if I had been born or made a eunuch (the "road not taken") but I know this has been a stormy, heart-breaking journey. I am reminded of Patrick Stewart as King Richard saying to Catherine of Aragon "I could have conquered all of Europe! I could have been Emperor rather than King, but I had women in my life..." *
All in all, if I had been asexual it would have avoided a lot of grief. I am nearer the end of this life than the beginning and it can't be known how it would have been if I had been born or made a eunuch (the "road not taken") but I know this has been a stormy, heart-breaking ride. I am reminded of Patrick Stewart as King Richard *saying to Catherine of Aragon "I could have conquered all of Europe! I could have been Emperor rather than King, but I had women in my life..."
* 'The Lion in Winter'.
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