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Old 12-09-2008, 03:45 PM
 
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If so How? Physical? Just a Question...no beef
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Old 12-09-2008, 03:49 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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Not this again....

Some do and some don't.

Many asian women in today's time are not as traditional and conservative as their parents and are open to dating men outside of their race but be warned they date white men WAY more than black men. White women date black men WAY more than asian women do.

Many asian women do like celebrity black men a lot. I do not think there is no particular body type though.

Japanese and Filipino women are most open to dating black men than the other groups from my experience...
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Old 12-09-2008, 05:05 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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If so How? Physical? Just a Question...no beef
Stop try to generalize and make stereotypes about Asian women. From your profile, I see that you are a black male. If you want to date an Asian women, just ask her out. If she says no, move on to someone else. And the more traditional a background an Asian woman is from, the less she will be interested in dating a black guy just on looks. Traditional Asians are more about admiring someone with a good education and successful career (doctor, lawyer) and they don't care about their partner having stunning good looks. Traditional Asians don't date for fun, they prefer to date someone that they think they will eventually get married to. And their parents and family will need to approve of you. So in approaching an Asian woman, use less player charm and instead show her how you would be good husband material because that's the sort of information she will need to tell her family about you to make them pleased that she is dating you.

But you really can't generalize Asians into one yellow group of people. They are very proud and aware of their different nationalities. If she's Japanese, don't forget it, and certainly don't confuse her nationality with the Chinese, Koreans, Viets or any others because she will be quite insulted. All the Asian countries have had frictions and rivalries for thousands of years. And Thai people don't use chopsticks!

I suppose as a young guy, you want to date an Asian woman because you think they are exotic and sexy looking. But as females, we don't pick our boyfriends that way. Men are more visually stimulated, the women are more stimulated by their brains. And the Asian women I know, my family included, don't find black men exotic, sexy or looking enough to have a relationship with. Or at least, my Asian females don't sit around talking about how sexy we find certain races of men. If there is talk of guys, it's on a case by case basis. And we also don't go drooling over posters of actors or models the way that you men do. We keep our hopes real and have no desire to go out with lots of different guys for thrills and kicks. That's just not the way we were raised.

And yes, there are many happy Asian women/white male couples. But frankly, those white guys tend to be geeks and other academic types, just like Asian guys tend to be if they want to make their parents happy. And some white guys with the Asian women are a fan of some aspect of the Asian culture like martial arts, or they served in the military in their home country so they are able to speak and even write their wife's native language fluently. So again, here's a hint, if you want to date particular Asian girl, work less on your physical appearance and instead work on learning about her culture, and don't forget to always be polite and respectful to her parents and brothers. You like the girl, but you also get her family.
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Old 12-09-2008, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Indiana
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My ex..LOVED asian women..course he was white..and well i'm white..now that i think about it..that bass turdie..
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Old 12-09-2008, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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my ex..loved asian women..course he was white..and well i'm white..now that i think about it..that bass turdie..
roflmao!
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Old 12-09-2008, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Indiana
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hehe..
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Old 12-09-2008, 07:30 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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I agree with everything that Miu said in her post. Very well said and she is absolutely right.

I also want to add that here in L.A., I see a lot of Asian women with black men. But it seems that almost 100% of the time, its the superfit, workout at the gym everyday U.S. born Asian women (who probably dont even speak language other than English) who always seem to be dating the superfit, workout at the gym everyday black guys who obviously are college grads, personal instructors or professional types who are NOT the "Im a producer.....", "Im in the music business...." type black guys.
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Old 12-09-2008, 09:33 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Stop try to generalize and make stereotypes about Asian women. From your profile, I see that you are a black male. If you want to date an Asian women, just ask her out. If she says no, move on to someone else. And the more traditional a background an Asian woman is from, the less she will be interested in dating a black guy just on looks. Traditional Asians are more about admiring someone with a good education and successful career (doctor, lawyer) and they don't care about their partner having stunning good looks. Traditional Asians don't date for fun, they prefer to date someone that they think they will eventually get married to. And their parents and family will need to approve of you. So in approaching an Asian woman, use less player charm and instead show her how you would be good husband material because that's the sort of information she will need to tell her family about you to make them pleased that she is dating you.

But you really can't generalize Asians into one yellow group of people. They are very proud and aware of their different nationalities. If she's Japanese, don't forget it, and certainly don't confuse her nationality with the Chinese, Koreans, Viets or any others because she will be quite insulted. All the Asian countries have had frictions and rivalries for thousands of years. And Thai people don't use chopsticks!

I suppose as a young guy, you want to date an Asian woman because you think they are exotic and sexy looking. But as females, we don't pick our boyfriends that way. Men are more visually stimulated, the women are more stimulated by their brains. And the Asian women I know, my family included, don't find black men exotic, sexy or looking enough to have a relationship with. Or at least, my Asian females don't sit around talking about how sexy we find certain races of men. If there is talk of guys, it's on a case by case basis. And we also don't go drooling over posters of actors or models the way that you men do. We keep our hopes real and have no desire to go out with lots of different guys for thrills and kicks. That's just not the way we were raised.

And yes, there are many happy Asian women/white male couples. But frankly, those white guys tend to be geeks and other academic types, just like Asian guys tend to be if they want to make their parents happy. And some white guys with the Asian women are a fan of some aspect of the Asian culture like martial arts, or they served in the military in their home country so they are able to speak and even write their wife's native language fluently. So again, here's a hint, if you want to date particular Asian girl, work less on your physical appearance and instead work on learning about her culture, and don't forget to always be polite and respectful to her parents and brothers. You like the girl, but you also get her family.
I know you have me on ignore miu, but that is the first post that I've read from you that I totally agree with. Either you're getting better or the chip on my shoulder is lifting.
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Old 12-09-2008, 09:58 PM
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I know you have me on ignore miu, but that is the first post that I've read from you that I totally agree with. Either you're getting better or the chip on my shoulder is lifting.
I've never put anyone on ignore... ever. lol! And I've just turned 50, so maybe I'm now better. Or... now that Obama's won, the chip on your shoulder has lifted.

Hey did any of you guys catch what some of those Victoria Secret models were saying backstage at the recent fashion show? They basically all said that "clever" pickup lines were lame and an immediate turnoff, and for a guy to just simply introduce himself instead.
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Old 12-10-2008, 10:10 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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I've never put anyone on ignore... ever. lol! And I've just turned 50, so maybe I'm now better. Or... now that Obama's won, the chip on your shoulder has lifted.

Hey did any of you guys catch what some of those Victoria Secret models were saying backstage at the recent fashion show? They basically all said that "clever" pickup lines were lame and an immediate turnoff, and for a guy to just simply introduce himself instead.
I seriously thought you were like in your late 20s
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