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I'd reiterate the advice to seek professional help. I have 2 friends (they are married to each other) that was having similar trouble with sex (he was addicted to porn and not paying attention to her) and they went to a sex therapist a year ago and things have been a LOT better. The therapist helped them work on issues in the bedroom, as well as other issues. She also helped them put the whole porn thing in perspective. I hear that as well as improving their relationship, the also really enjoyed the sessions as well!
Yes, one who love to have sex all the time and let me bake for him and massage him. ( I am a trained massage therapist) Do you know anyone who is willing to give that a go? :P
Make a movie with him.
Start with a little massage in a candle lit room.
Get out the oil... rub ba dub dub.
Then allow it to escalate into something more till you are both on the floor breathing hard and the candles are nothing but a pile of wax.
Later, you both can watch it together. Grrrrrrrrrr.
Here is my on going problem, my husband is super sweet and is affectionate all the time except he has a BIG porn addiction and he is only interested in sex with me once a week- if Im lucky. I challenged him to have sex with me everyday for a month and he said that is mentally unstable to ask! I have always been cute and guys love to flirt with me and I keep in shape, so what is the deal, is my marriage over?
Does he view his porn alone, or does he invite you to join him?
Twice a month is enough for most people. Otherwise it's just too taxing.
TWICE A MONTH???!!!
Are you serious??!!
For who? An 87 year old man with a pace maker and a bad hip??
Sheesh, you have to give a man at least once a week. We have build up ya know.
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