Your interpretation of this comment, though I have an idea (long distance, women)

[jinglebell]

It seems like most folks here overlooked something he said about the lady had sexual issues at childhood.

Therefore, I will not interpret her and her words as most so-called "normal" people.

I wish I can have a friend who can still think about me after 20 years!

It was very nice of you!

[robertpolyglot]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

I think this is BS and you're in denial, Robert.

I can always rely on S-Az for a "ya gotta be kidding" response.

[yankeegirl313]

[quote=jinglebell;6539894]It seems like most folks here overlooked something he said about the lady had sexual issues at childhood.
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So? Does that mean that he shouldn`t have any kind of other connection with her, because of this?

[mrstewart]

Your friends reference to you being like a brother to her was probably not meant to be derogatory.

If this bothers you, how would you like her to rephrase it?

[jinglebell]

[quote=yankeegirl313;6539994]

Originally Posted by jinglebell

It seems like most folks here overlooked something he said about the lady had sexual issues at childhood.
[/quote

So? Does that mean that he shouldn`t have any kind of other connection with her, because of this?

I am not a good teacher but read some human psychology books will be helpful....

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by mrstewart

Your friends reference to you being like a brother to her was probably not meant to be derogatory.

There is another fancy word! (I kid.)

[mrstewart]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

There is another fancy word! (I kid.)

Oooops...sorry

[easternerDC]

Originally Posted by mrstewart

Your friends reference to you being like a brother to her was probably not meant to be derogatory.

If this bothers you, how would you like her to rephrase it?

Maybe she should have first told him how incredibly attractive he is, and then go on to say that she is so lucky to have this amazing piece of hotness as a good platonic friend.

[artsyguy]

True

Originally Posted by Twinkle Toes

I think she holds you in high regard. The fact that you are upset about the comment tells me that you want something more from her than just friendship. That's how I interpret it.

True

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

If you both have known each other for 20 years, and have kept in touch, but it has been on a friendship bases, then why are you upset with her comment about you being like a brother to her? That tells me that she respects you. You must have more feelings for her than just friendship, or this wouldn`t upset you so.

[artsyguy]

Dude, Robert buddy. Do you have a lil' crush??
Shoot I haven't had a crush in ages. So I consider myself pretty lucky man.