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Old 12-14-2008, 12:23 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Now, think about how much extra you could get accomplish in life if you wittled that down to 5 times a year? More time for productive activities.
No thank you. I know thats a joke but we already lead very accomplished, rewarding and happy lives. If I wittel down my accomplishments I would love to have more time for sex

Maybe when we get older we'll wittle it down to about once a week but not less than that.
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Old 12-14-2008, 12:25 PM
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Location: MA/NH
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Honestly, if I could never have sex again, I wouldn't miss it. Not that I don't enjoy it, but there are plenty of other things I also like doing that gives me great pleasure. So let's say that my boyfriend suddenly became impotent, it would be no big deal to me. And if I were single, I could go for years without sex. But... I am a woman.

Sex is a big deal for men. I think in part, because their sex organs are outside the body and when they are aroused, it's very obvious to them. And I love my boyfriend very much, and giving him pleasure and sexual release is a way of showing him my love and seeing him happy makes me happy too. He is a very good lover, but I love the way he massages my feet about as much as having sex with him, he's just that good at rubbing them. We also like cuddling and massaging each other all over. After a hard bicycle ride, he really enjoys a good massage. Massages are a form of affection and caring for us. Massages aren't foreplay. Most massages never end in sex.
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Old 12-14-2008, 12:30 PM
 
Location: southern california
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I was on the other thread and I just can't believe it! Get a divorce because someone won't give sex more than twice a month? That shows that you never truly loved that person in the first place.

I can do a year without it standing on my head. What is the big deal?
love is a strange thing. it does not always get rewarded in fact hi incidence of non reward
recent poll by women with kids on frequency of sex
60% 1x a week
30% 1x a month
5% never
5% wild variations
if people made marriage contracts like they do american biz contracts things would surely get better
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Old 12-14-2008, 12:30 PM
 
Location: Queens
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I was on the other thread and I just can't believe it! Get a divorce because someone won't give sex more than twice a month? That shows that you never truly loved that person in the first place.

I can do a year without it standing on my head. What is the big deal?
I could not go a year if I was in a relationship with someone, unless there was a health issue or something. Why would my boyfriend or husband not be having sex with me?????? Sex is an important part of the relationship. I can go a year if I'm not in a relationship, but something is up if you're not having sex at all during a year. I think that suggests other problems.

I know when my bf wasnt having sex with me for 3 months it was just part of a lot of other bigger problems in the relationship, and it's better that we broke up.
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Old 12-14-2008, 12:30 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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I think sex is a very important part of a relationship..how would you feel if your spouse went a year without speaking to you? or a year without looking at you? touching your arm back face anything? If these people didn't want intimacy then they would of moved in a roommate. I would no way be with someone that didn't want to make love to me. I 100% think that would be a dealbreaker. I don't think they are saying they don't love who they are with by saying they want sex. It's a natural part of being married or being human period. I'd rather have a horn dog over a cold fish..


Is a horn dog kinda lika a corn dog??????..............................heeheehee.. ....................
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Old 12-14-2008, 12:32 PM
 
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^ ya corn dogs are pretty cool man
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Old 12-14-2008, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Hope, AR
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So twice a month is actually a lot.

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love is a strange thing. it does not always get rewarded in fact hi incidence of non reward
recent poll by women with kids on frequency of sex
60% 1x a week
30% 1x a month
5% never
5% wild variations
if people made marriage contracts like they do american biz contracts things would surely get better
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Old 12-14-2008, 12:36 PM
 
Location: southern california
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So twice a month is actually a lot.
its just keeps getting better.
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Old 12-14-2008, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Hope, AR
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The sex, or my posts?

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its just keeps getting better.
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Old 12-14-2008, 01:48 PM
 
Location: Incognito
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With Palmira and her spanish twin sister Manuela, who needs sex!
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