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Old 12-16-2008, 08:53 PM
 
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I know im gonna sound like an A Hole here but I have to say this. Please use a Dictionary... There were things I could not understand


Your what?


She throws at jelly package at D? The letter D?


Says *what* is wrong?

NOW.. back to your question... She is only a waitres.... A waitress who works mostly on tips. Waitresses will tend to look and be extra sweet and sexy for more tips from guys. She is 16. Do you honestly think he will be going after a 16 year old girl who works at "The Establishment" when he has you? You ladies are too self conscious when it comes to things like that. As far as the kids are concerned, I dont think she would do anything inappropriate in front of the kids.
Thank you! I was thinking it was just me!!!
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Old 12-16-2008, 08:53 PM
 
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I agree with everyone else. She was 16, so it's his fault. Someone probably told her that this flattering behavior is required of waitresses and she took it too far. Again, you need to talk with D. He was disrespectful to you and to his kids.
Better yet, show him this thread.
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Old 12-16-2008, 08:54 PM
 
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The number on the name tag is how many years they've been working there (at the Wafflehouse), not how old she is.

Bob Evan's doesn't seem to have problems with young, flirty waitress types. It could be the grand slam breakfast special sells itself.
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Old 12-16-2008, 08:54 PM
 
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OMG Are you Kidding me??? He did nothing wrong! He didnt touch her... He didnt flirt with her... He didnt say "I love you" to her... So why should this woman yell at the man for?
Because he also didn't DISCOURAGE her like a grown man should. (can't believe you don't get this?)
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Old 12-16-2008, 08:54 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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I agree with everyone else. She was 16, so it's his fault. Someone probably told her that this flattering behavior is required of waitresses and she took it too far. Again, you need to talk with D. He was disrespectful to you and to his kids.
Better yet, show him this thread.
*shakes head* Not a good idea.
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Old 12-16-2008, 08:55 PM
 
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OMG Are you Kidding me??? He did nothing wrong! He didnt touch her... He didnt flirt with her... He didnt say "I love you" to her... So why should this woman yell at the man for?
Where did I say the word "yell" in my post??? I said "hash it out"...discuss, toss around, figure it out...

I never said he touched her, flirt with her, etc...SHE DID! If she has a problem with it she should bring it up with the person she is in the relationship with not a stranger!
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Old 12-16-2008, 08:56 PM
 
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Towards the end, she came up to him and looked into his eys and put her hand on his shoulder. I almost came out of my seat.

I am afraid I am overreacting, and this is a little 16 yo who just doesn't get it or something....
Since when does a 16 year old ever "get it"?
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Old 12-16-2008, 08:57 PM
 
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Is this what you mean?

http://i72.photobucket.com/albums/i1...etard111jc.jpg

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Oh come on, it was harmless puppy love
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Old 12-16-2008, 08:59 PM
 
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OMG Are you Kidding me??? He did nothing wrong! He didnt touch her... He didnt flirt with her... He didnt say "I love you" to her... So why should this woman yell at the man for?
He did NOTHING to discourage her. THAT'S why.

And that should be obvious.
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Old 12-16-2008, 08:59 PM
 
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