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I talked to him about it, everything is fine., Thank you all for your input, I am sorry I offended a few of you and that you had to waste your time on me.
I wonder if she used the word "evaluation" as I would use the term "people watching"...
That may be how it started, but in general, "people watching" suggests passive viewing like looking at scenery or a sunset. "Evaluation" suggests passing judgments on the people viewed. When a manager evaluates an employee, a report is being made and that person is graded as to their strengths and weaknesses. Evaluation has a negative and harsh connotation. I strongly suggest that she and her boyfriend stop referring to what they are doing as "evaluation".
You make a good point about D's name, and I removed it from my post.
The only reason I posted this at all, knowing it would appear that I'm being harsh with her, is that my sympathies lie completely with the many, many caring C-D people who gave her their unstinting and generous support for almost a year. If you have read all the way to the end of the threads, you know how much love and compassion went into helping her. In the interest of fairness, I simply can't stand by and see a whole new group of C-D friends devote their love and time helping with the same type of controlling situation, but with a different man.
You know what? People read my posts for over a year. I was on here each and every day. My life, the good and bad unfolded before your very eyes. Did some people help me? Yes, they did. Did I ask for their help? No I did not. Did I ask advise? At times. Was this a place for me to just get everything out, my solace? Yes, it was.
In the end, I was judged. Fine. Get over it, I did. I had some really harsh things said to me. Fine.
Did you have to read every day? Did you have to invest your time and anything else, if you did? No.
Free will. Every one has it.
Open forum. We are all on it. Whoever you are, for some reason I do not recognize your name, I hope you can just move on with your life. My last post in the last thread was early June. For a few months I stayed away. Do I still have to stay away? Am I not welcome here? Am I not allowed to ask a question here? Should I ask the administrator before I post again? Did you?
Am I asking for followers?
No. I wanted advise, or opinions. I am allowed those just as anyone else here is.
Nice to see you again Robyn, I have wondered how you were doing. I would agree with what most have said. Talking to your SO about the situation and how it made you fee would be the best bet. It sounds like you have done that. Good for you! I hope things are good in all respects. Many Blessings.
He used a little girl to make you feel jealous.That's b..sh..!
That goes to show he do not respect you as a grown ass woman don't
cry say bye! kick'm to the curve!.
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