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We all know about men who are players. Just wondering how common it is among women.
When I say player, I'm not talking about the woman who goes from bed to bed. I'm talking about the kind of woman who leads a man on, making him think she's interested in a relationship when really all she wants is sex.
Open relationships are becoming more common nowadays. So I wonder if women who are looking for sex partners outside of their relationship tell the people they hook up with that they're just looking for sex and that they already have a partner.
I dated a woman who doesn't bother to tell her boyfriends that its over. This tends to create a lot of tension between the new guy and the ex's. But she's "skyrockets in flight" in the sack. So I learned that certain rules needed to be applied...
1)We're not getting back together but I enjoy being with her...that's clearly defined, now.
2)She want's a hook up? Fine..you come to me, to my place, I'll even pay for a Taxi. I'm not going over there where there's always some "I don't know why he doesn't get we're through hanging out", stalking her
3) You want an evening over here? Fine leave your cell home!
Uhh, it's NOT the same thing, professor. Some women go from bed to bed and the guys sleep with know exactly what they're getting and not getting. They don't delude themselves into thinking it's gonna lead to anything. They know it's just sex. I'm talking about the women who hook up with a guy and lead him on. Maybe they get together with him several times, let him take her out to dinner and stuff, like they're actually dating. But in reality, she doesn't care about any of that. She just wants the physical stuff and when she gets bored, she'll ditch him and find herself some other toy. The difference between these two women is one doesn't hide her intent, but the other does.
Uhh, it's NOT the same thing, professor. Some women go from bed to bed and the guys sleep with know exactly what they're getting and not getting. They don't delude themselves into thinking it's gonna lead to anything. They know it's just sex. I'm talking about the women who hook up with a guy and lead him on. Maybe they get together with him several times, let him take her out to dinner and stuff, like they're actually dating. But in reality, she doesn't care about any of that. She just wants the physical stuff and when she gets bored, she'll ditch him and find herself some other toy. The difference between these two women is one doesn't hide her intent, but the other does.
We all know about men who are players. Just wondering how common it is among women.
When I say player, I'm not talking about the woman who goes from bed to bed. I'm talking about the kind of woman who leads a man on, making him think she's interested in a relationship when really all she wants is sex.
Open relationships are becoming more common nowadays. So I wonder if women who are looking for sex partners outside of their relationship tell the people they hook up with that they're just looking for sex and that they already have a partner.
Yes, there are women players just the same as there are men who play the game. The difference is, when a woman plays she is called all kinds of nasty names in the end. When a guy acts like an arse, he is passed on as a jerk and nothing else really comes of it. All this said,women have to eat too! I've dated guys in the past that I was never intimate with but had them take me out to dinner several times, knowing that I was not going to do anything with them! I've never used a guy for sex! To me, the hassel has never been worth dealing with any of that. If a guy buys you dinner more than four times he starts to expect something and dinner does not equal sex! When I was younger I dated several guys at once, but that is what dating is. Dating is not a commitment from me or anyone else, it is simply dating. The day that things turn intimate I feel that you have to own up to your intentions but until then, free food and free movies are nice!
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Uhh, it's the same thing, professore.
