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Old 02-24-2009, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Men don't notice until it's too late for two reasons: 1) Women are a lot subtler than men and 2) Women are more observant.

Most of the time men have to be hit over the head to get it. Whether she's cheating or she's interested in him (as evidenced by several threads) a guy won't get it until it's blatantly obvious.
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Old 02-24-2009, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Fiji
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Yes, I can tell!
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Old 02-24-2009, 02:39 PM
 
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Men don't notice until it's too late for two reasons: 1) Women are a lot subtler than men and 2) Women are more observant.

Most of the time men have to be hit over the head to get it. Whether she's cheating or she's interested in him (as evidenced by several threads) a guy won't get it until it's blatantly obvious.


not all men are clueless, just men who are made to believe that they are rmorons (usually by women)

subtle as in sneaky, women will cheat and then justify it and will actually train themselves to actually believe their own justification.

Women fail to accept responsibility

Men accept responsibility for their actions so thats why they are easier to read.
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Old 02-24-2009, 02:44 PM
 
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Men don't notice until it's too late for two reasons: 1) Women are a lot subtler than men and 2) Women are more observant.

Most of the time men have to be hit over the head to get it. Whether she's cheating or she's interested in him (as evidenced by several threads) a guy won't get it until it's blatantly obvious.
Unless, of course, he's one of those guys who mod cut on the idea of his spouse getting mod cut by another guy.

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Old 02-24-2009, 02:46 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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Most women have that instinct they can tell if their man has another woman in their life. Sometimes I wonder if men also have that same instinct because they tend to be emotionally blind. Can a man tell if his woman has another man if it is not that obvious? Like do you also have that instinct? I am just curious.
Instinct?? They can read the uneasiness in your eyes, the way you look away when answering questions about where you were, the way your hand goes to your mouth when you say "no i didn't see anybody I know" the way you cover your arms while talking to her about what you've been doing, the way you rub your hands together, like that time she found out about ...and you rubbed your hands together then when you lied?

Instinct? No...they are far better lie detectors than men are. They all become that way after their teens. You know why they had to become far better lie detectors? Dealing with other girls constantly lying to them.
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Old 02-24-2009, 02:47 PM
 
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Most women have that instinct they can tell if their man has another woman in their life. Sometimes I wonder if men also have that same instinct because they tend to be emotionally blind. Can a man tell if his woman has another man if it is not that obvious? Like do you also have that instinct? I am just curious.

You know, when it comes to this subject I have learned that you haft to tend to not care... Bro, everyday females are approached and gawked at by men (like me) and if you are always thinking about what she is doing while she is away then you will only drive yourself nuts...

So my only advice is to pick the best girl you think you can; treat her right and just hang on for the ride... If she happens to bring up that she is seeing somebody else or you have solid proof that she is having relations with somebody else then at that point its up to you to pull the plug and move on... Untill then; relax and enjoy your time with her....
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Old 02-24-2009, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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not all men are clueless, just men who are made to believe that they are morons (usually by women)

subtle as in sneaky, women will cheat and then justify it and will actually train themselves to actually believe their own justification.

Women fail to accept responsibility

Men accept responsibility for their actions so thats why they are easier to read.
Whew! ROTFLMAO! Thank you for the laugh. I needed that. Now I want you to go to all the mothers who are owed child support and tell them that men accept responsibilty for their actions. And to the women who are raising children as a single parent because the men who created these children don't think they should participate in the child rearing process.

I realize that there are men who do take care of their children but far more don't.
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Old 02-24-2009, 10:02 PM
 
Location: Lost in Montana *recalculating*...
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I realize that there are men who do take care of their children but far more don't.
Excuse me?

You mean to tell me that there are more delinquent men than there are that actually do take responsibility for their children?

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Old 02-25-2009, 08:58 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Not sure if its instinct or noticing changes in behavior or conversation. Sometimes you feel a change in the 'closeness' you and an SO feel when things are on the outs.
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Old 02-25-2009, 11:06 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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" If you want to be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife. So from my personal point of view get an UGLY girl to marry you!!"
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