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Old 12-21-2008, 07:02 AM
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I am an American woman working overseas in Asia. I met an American soldier recently in a Latin club here who is [Mod] We can discuss relationships but not in appearance, race, etc. Love comes in all sizes, shapes and colors. [/Mod]

At first, I didn't take him seriously because I sensed that he's quite young but he kept hanging around me and was always asking me to dance. He's an unbelievable dancer!

I found out he's 20 and well, I'm 31 although I look quite young for my age so maybe I have him fooled. I thought he was a bit older because he's more mature than the average 20-year-old and when I told him I'm older than him, he told me his last girlfriend was quite a bit older than him too. I'm trying my best to resist him but he's doing everything he can to romance me and he is sooo romantic and even bought me gifts even though we're not even dating. I feel insane for even considering dating him also because we're both here temporarily and I don't want to get attached. He already asked me out once but I cancelled on him because I was sick though I was really worried about the age difference too.

Last time I saw him at the club though, we spoke and flirted a lot and I think he senses I want to go out with him. He is very charming and gentlemanlike. Do [Mod]XXXX[/Mod] men typically date older women and are they known to be romantic? If so, I think I should have dated a [Mod]XXXX [/Mod]guy a long time ago.

Last edited by 2goldens; 12-21-2008 at 08:56 AM.. Reason: took out Mexican/Mexican-ness/Race discussion
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