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Old 01-09-2009, 12:51 PM
 
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It will be interesting to have those guys here who do not pay the first date reveal their true relationship history.

Or I can easily predict their past, present and even future in the regard.

Guys, you don't know what you are talking about....period....
If they are successful with dating then I doubt they'd take the time to prove it to you. no motive

If they aren't successful, I doubt they'd share that either

I already said I pay for the 1st date, but I also think there are women out there who are willing to go dutch if the guy is a good conversationalist, fun to be around, and they dig him
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Old 01-09-2009, 12:56 PM
 
Location: Planet earth
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If they are successful with dating then I doubt they'd take the time to prove it to you. no motive

If they aren't successful, I doubt they'd share that either

I already said I pay for the 1st date, but I also think there are women out there who are willing to go dutch if the guy is a good conversationalist, fun to be around, and they dig him
As I said in one of my previous posts, I am more than happy to pay the second date in full!
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Old 01-09-2009, 12:58 PM
 
Location: CA
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I notice guys who don't have chips on their shoulders and issues with women tend to pay. Guys who have issues often make a big deal of it....huge turn off.

I never expect it, but I always appreciate it. The only time I dislike when a guy pays is when he says something like "you can pick up the bill next time". I think that is horribly tacky. You don't treat with any expectation, you should do it only because you want to. If a guy treats me to something, I am more than happy to reciprocate at another occasion, but it is when I want to and not because I feel it is expected. I am not going to have anyone telling me when I need to "pay them back". I would never do that to someone else....
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Old 01-10-2009, 12:19 AM
 
Location: southern california
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I had very specific questions! Of course, weaseling out of them is a favorite approach of many.
i love my job.

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Old 01-10-2009, 02:13 AM
 
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im so sorry you dont feel well i will call and pay for that cab right now.
i told the waiter to hurry with your drink to go, my gosh your hands are shaking! you dont feel well do you. hmm, did you want me to tell the busboy anything?

seriosly who cares if someone has 1 drink or 2
maybe in one resteraunt the glasses are bigger than the other
maybe its watered down
maybe theyre the same everywhere but how can you be this big of a nit
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