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Old 12-29-2008, 11:25 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Hmm.. Seems to me there needs to be some type of beta test to determine the correct answer to your quandary. I'm relatively close in age to your boss, soooo.... PM me some pics and I'll let you know!
Thanks for proving my point
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Old 12-29-2008, 11:26 AM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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I agree wholeheartedly. Women in their 30s and 40s are far hotter. They've pretty much abandoned all their neuroses and self-centeredness, and pretty much know what's what.
Completly agree! When I was in my early twenties I frequently dated ladies in their late thirties. No stupid lil' high school bubble gum games and trying to carry on a conversation about some teeny bop heart throb or about who the latest female pop star was sleeping with. Dating older people when your young is fine...just don't expect too much in the way of long term. And leave it alone if they are married!!!
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Old 12-29-2008, 11:27 AM
 
Location: Lost in Montana *recalculating*...
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Thanks for proving my point
I'm only doing this from a purely empirical stand-point.

But you're welcome!
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Old 12-29-2008, 11:30 AM
 
Location: from houstoner to bostoner to new yorker to new jerseyite ;)
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When I was in my 20's there was nothing sexier than an older man (40's). They always seem to smart and sophisticated and they made me feel very good about myself. And it always seem that they are past the game playing that guys your age are all about. I was always the most relaxed around older men because they seem s oconfident and secure.

If he's into you too, go for it. Just remember what happens outside of the office stays outside of the office, especialy if you've had a fight.
Ha! Older men are not past game-playing. They've just refined their strategy and gotten better (read: more subtle) at it.

And the latter... terrible advice if she wants to keep her job.
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Old 12-29-2008, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Ha! Older men are not past game-playing. They've just refined their strategy and gotten better (read: more subtle) at it.
True.
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Old 12-29-2008, 12:01 PM
 
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I agree wholeheartedly. Women in their 30s and 40s are far hotter. They've pretty much abandoned all their neuroses and self-centeredness, and pretty much know what's what.
Well said, you hit the nail on the head.
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Old 12-29-2008, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Norfolk, Va (unfortunately)
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I'm 20, and my boyfriend is 18 years older than me. He loves me for who I am, not what I look like. Although he really likes that, too.
Dating your boss is never a good idea if you want to keep your job. No doubt he probably would be attracted to you, but first of all, he's your boss. Second, there's a pretty good chance he's married. If he's single, he's probably been divorced at least once, and may have children. Nothing wrong with dating older men, just be careful, stay away from married men, and under no circumstances should you ever date your boss.
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Old 12-29-2008, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I agree wholeheartedly. Women in their 30s and 40s are far hotter. They've pretty much abandoned all their neuroses and self-centeredness, and pretty much know what's what.
Now, now, cpg... I'm a loyal person and I've no intention to abandon my neuroses!
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Old 12-29-2008, 01:39 PM
 
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Now, now, cpg... I'm a loyal person and I've no intention to abandon my neuroses!
Gosh...it's such an elastic term, too.

Ordinary-looking women with bizarre behavior = Neurotic

Drop-dead gorgeous women with bizarre behavior = Colorful
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Old 12-29-2008, 01:51 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Gosh...it's such an elastic term, too.

Ordinary-looking women with bizarre behavior = Neurotic

Drop-dead gorgeous women with bizarre behavior = Colorful
That's right! It's all in the semantics!
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