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Old 01-05-2009, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Personally I would stay out of it. If she's as blatant about cheating as it sounds, nobody will need to say anything - the guy will find out on his own.
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Old 01-05-2009, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Toledo
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The guy is not really a friend. He's someone I say hi to, talk about cars, guns and other guy stuff.
Which is all the more reason you should MYOB unless you're the type that likes to watch drama unfold.
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Old 01-05-2009, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Where we enjoy all four seasons
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I would keep her wondering what you are going to do for a while.
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Old 01-05-2009, 09:49 AM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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Which is all the more reason you should MYOB unless you're the type that likes to watch drama unfold.
Mr cat? Why what a shocking inquary!
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Old 01-05-2009, 10:19 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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Which is all the more reason you should MYOB unless you're the type that likes to watch drama unfold.

Oh no. I stay away from drama.
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Old 01-05-2009, 10:20 AM
 
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Mr cat? Why what a shocking inquary!

English please?
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Old 01-05-2009, 10:21 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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Mr cat? Why what a shocking inquary!

Or Spanish also?
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Old 01-05-2009, 10:24 AM
 
Location: Chicago, Illinois
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you mine as well get some "favors" yourself, mr. cat. just make sure you strap one up. it sounds like she goes around like a record.
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Old 01-05-2009, 10:37 AM
 
Location: in love with life!
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I personally would stay out of it, unless he asks you straight out when he returns. If this is a one time thing than she might feel guilty and confess to him in a letter or e-mail. If it is consistent behavior than he may already suspect or will find out. But he doesn't sound like a real close friend, so I'd let them deal with it. And if he is in the Marines than they will eventually PCS (move for you civilians!) anyway. But for now I'd not worry about it, listen to your wife, she is a smart woman!
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Old 01-05-2009, 11:00 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Well I was coming back from our fitness room early this morning and who did I see making out in a car in the parking lot? My neighbor's wife.
They moved in about 8 months ago, he's a marine and I guess he go deployed back in Iraq so she's by herself now.
What a B**CH!!!! Its always wrong to cheat on your s.o., but I think its especially wrong to do it if your s.o. is serving in the military. I really think that women (or men) who cheat on their spouses who are on active military duty should be brought up on treason charges!!

These guys are over there risking their lives doing their job and when they have to worry about whats going on at home, it puts thier lives and the lives of others in their unit at risk. I would love to see a law that charges them with treason.
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