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Old 01-08-2009, 06:30 PM
 
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I have not forgotten what it is like to date and I sure haven't forgotten how to get rid of someone who is not welcome in your life. As many other posters suggested, all you need to do is block this person from your email...easy as that. How does that simple solution need better explanation? That solution has nothing to do with having children or being married, it is called common sense.
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Old 01-08-2009, 06:45 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX.
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It's only stalking if you are seriously trying to date online...lol. I used the plentyoffish site for a little while when I lived in Florida before I got married to meet women. I thought is was so hillarious how they gave options on there like "Long Term", "Dating", etc... Then you would always see all the women getting pissy on there because all the guys wanted was a sexual relationship, or an internet fix, and there was always the one in 20 exception of a guy who was truly a nerd. Come on ya'll! I think anyone who has bad luck because they take internet dating seriously enough to consider it so deserves it. I can tell you 99% of the men on there are not going to take you seriously even if you do meet up because you were on an internet dating site, and they are deffinately not looking for "Long Term".
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Old 01-08-2009, 06:46 PM
 
Location: Arkansas
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I have not forgotten what it is like to date and I sure haven't forgotten how to get rid of someone who is not welcome in your life. As many other posters suggested, all you need to do is block this person from your email...easy as that. How does that simple solution need better explanation? That solution has nothing to do with having children or being married, it is called common sense.
I would have to agree. If you don't want this guy bothering you, then there are ways to get rid of him. I'm no longer single and I am a mom, but I still have men hit on me and I still find a way to make them go away.
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Old 01-08-2009, 06:46 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Wow! It seems the creepy emails (which I understand go unread and not even to the OP's private email account??? ) have turned an otherwise pleasant discussion into an all out war - the singles against the marrieds and moms! I'm not really sure I get the correlation, but in the world of looney bins ... well, I guess anything's possible.
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Old 01-08-2009, 06:50 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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I'm married and I have kids, but I am always on the cutting edge of being on the prowl. I kinda like to think I have a clue. I used to, anyway ...

Hey, OP, why not just delete the things you don't want to read? You don't even have to respond. This guy will go away.
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Old 01-08-2009, 06:52 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Stalker. He is definitely a stalker. For the sake of other women on the site, please report him.
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Old 01-08-2009, 06:54 PM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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It's only stalking if you are seriously trying to date online...lol. I used the plentyoffish site for a little while when I lived in Florida before I got married to meet women. I thought is was so hillarious how they gave options on there like "Long Term", "Dating", etc... Then you would always see all the women getting pissy on there because all the guys wanted was a sexual relationship, or an internet fix, and there was always the one in 20 exception of a guy who was truly a nerd. Come on ya'll! I think anyone who has bad luck because they take internet dating seriously enough to consider it so deserves it. I can tell you 99% of the men on there are not going to take you seriously even if you do meet up because you were on an internet dating site, and they are deffinately not looking for "Long Term".
Well, this subject has already been beat to death on other threads but since you obviously missed those...

I know at least six married couples who met online. They are all nice, normal, decent looking people with good jobs. Some have been married for over five years at this point and have children.

I've learned to weed out the ones online who have an attitude like yours and there are plenty left over.

So where the **** would you go to meet someone in San Antonio if you were single, if not online? I'm all ears.
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Old 01-08-2009, 06:55 PM
 
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Well, this subject has already been beat to death on other threads but since you obviously missed those...

I know at least six married couples who met online. They are all nice, normal, decent looking people with good jobs. Some have been married for over five years at this point and have children.

I've learned to weed out the ones online who have an attitude like yours and there are plenty left over.

So where the **** would you go to meet someone in San Antonio if you were single, if not online? I'm all ears.
Is San Antonio not very singles friendly? I've never been.
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Old 01-08-2009, 06:59 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Well, this subject has already been beat to death on other threads but since you obviously missed those...

I know at least six married couples who met online. They are all nice, normal, decent looking people with good jobs. Some have been married for over five years at this point and have children.

I've learned to weed out the ones online who have an attitude like yours and there are plenty left over.

So where the **** would you go to meet someone in San Antonio if you were single, if not online? I'm all ears.
Ooooh! Ooooooh!!! I used to live in San Antonio!!! I met my dance partner online at ballroomdancers.com. We are the best of friends and we met online and he's not a weirdo! Of course the jury's still out on whether I am a weirdo or not!

Hey Trops - do you know where the Blue Bubble Ballroom is on Broadway off the 410??? That's where I used to train when I was in SA.
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Old 01-08-2009, 07:00 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Is San Antonio not very singles friendly? I've never been.
It's kinda touristy. You have the Alamo, the Riverwalk, Six Flags and Sea World. A little way down the road you have Schlitterbahn!
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