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Old 01-18-2009, 11:25 AM
 
Location: Philly
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How long did it take you to fall in love with your current spouse/fiance/gf/bf?
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Old 01-18-2009, 11:44 AM
 
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I'm married, and it was eight months for me, at least before I analyzed the situation then.
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Old 01-18-2009, 12:27 PM
 
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About 1 year...we were long distance for 8 months and then I moved here when I felt it was the real thing!
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Old 01-18-2009, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Philly
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I'm married, and it was eight months for me, at least before I analyzed the situation then.
So are you saying it was 8 months before you really analyzed the situation and thought "I'm in Love?"
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Old 01-18-2009, 01:34 PM
 
Location: SC
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I was instantly drawn to him. But because of a past heart break, It was about 6 months before I admitted to myself that I was in love with him. Since that time I have grown to love him even more deeply.

You have to get past the lust and infatuation spell & really get to know that person before you can call it love.
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Old 01-18-2009, 02:12 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I haven't fallen in love since '76 but back then I realized within 3 to 4 weeks I was in deep. Then, in that time-frame, when he told me he had to tell me something and I didn't need to respond and he said he loved me, that was it. I never recovered.

ETA: But I suspected within 3 dates I already loved him, seriously.
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Old 01-18-2009, 06:28 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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Not long at all.
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Old 01-18-2009, 06:45 PM
 
Location: Austintown, OH
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With the current one, not long at all, less than a month.

You just know.

Everyone is different though
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Old 01-18-2009, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Incognito
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A month and a half into our friendship I broke it down to her.
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Old 01-18-2009, 08:47 PM
 
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Couple hours.I went to visit her and have not left in 26 years.

hillman
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