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Went out Saterday to a new Karaoke place. I was having a good time. Along came a 40ish throwback to the 80's of a variety I enjoy. Blonde, slender, would I sing this for her, will you dance with me, wanna come back to my place? And we're off...
It's bitterly cold outside(thank god for global warming, I can't imagine how cold it would be without it!) So I decide to warm up the truck before departure. I walk up on the "porch" of the establishment to smoke a cigarette and her friend is out there. She's another 80's throwback sorta. She starts a conversation with me by introducing herself. She then asks me what my plans are next Saterday. I told her maybe I'll be back there. She then says "good it's a date, don't make any other plans."
I...somewhat confused...say.."Ummm I'm kinda with your friend ____??"
She says "Oh you'll be tired of her by next Saterday"
This, to me, is this womans way of saying "I got next!"
What has Designing Woman done to us as a populace?
I really don't know what to think?? I...guess I'm flatured. I'm also stunned at the agressiveness. And sorta feeling relagated to a piece of meat?
Meanwhile, I and the other lady seemed to hit it off....but i sense large dramatic clouds on the horizon
Things really are changing out there, aren't they?
I think many women's expectations of a man's attention span are not particularly high. Therefore, the second woman was merely stating the obvious. I'll be surprised if she doesn't send you a reminder card mid-week.
Of course, that doesn't minimize the fact that you must have the right pheromones going.
this sounds like something an ex-friend of mine would've done behind my back......... Not to say I'm a dramatic person who scares guys off....... but anytime I'd have an interest in a guy for awhile, and eventually the interest would wear off, she'd be right there behind me scooping up my sloppy seconds........ it didn't bother me at first, but after she did this with almost EVERY guy that I had interest with I really started to lose my cool with her.
It made her look stupid to be honest. Everyone else saw it too and saw how "desperate" it made her look. She couldn't ever get her own guy, she always went after her friends sloppy seconds (I'm not the only one she'd do this to)
this sounds like something an ex-friend of mine would've done behind my back......... Not to say I'm a dramatic person who scares guys off....... but anytime I'd have an interest in a guy for awhile, and eventually the interest would wear off, she'd be right there behind me scooping up my sloppy seconds........ it didn't bother me at first, but after she did this with almost EVERY guy that I had interest with I really started to lose my cool with her.
It made her look stupid to be honest. Everyone else saw it too and saw how "desperate" it made her look. She couldn't ever get her own guy, she always went after her friends sloppy seconds (I'm not the only one she'd do this to)
Thanks! I'm "sloppy seconds"
Actually I'm a little concerned.....Do I possibly bring this up to girl A? If I don't, do I possibly allow myself to be set up by girl B for a downfall?
I am a firm believer that a lot of woman are catty, backstabbing, manipulators. Excluding of course, all the wonderful goddesses on here!
this sounds like something an ex-friend of mine would've done behind my back......... Not to say I'm a dramatic person who scares guys off....... but anytime I'd have an interest in a guy for awhile, and eventually the interest would wear off, she'd be right there behind me scooping up my sloppy seconds........ it didn't bother me at first, but after she did this with almost EVERY guy that I had interest with I really started to lose my cool with her.
It made her look stupid to be honest. Everyone else saw it too and saw how "desperate" it made her look. She couldn't ever get her own guy, she always went after her friends sloppy seconds (I'm not the only one she'd do this to)
My late wife had a "friend" just like yours. She said that with every guy she dated, as soon as it was over this friend moved in for the kill. She thought it was hilarious. And then she said, "If I die before you, I don't care what or who you do, but just DON'T go out with (friend)." Sure enough, not two months after my wife died (friend) started calling every few days and eventually suggested that we get together (to put it politely). That was an easy decision.
Aaaww... opti got some insight of what being a woman feels like!
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Excluding of course, all the wonderful goddesses on here!
Good thing you didn't forget the disclaimer or our claws would've come out!
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I'm also stunned at the agressiveness. 
And sorta feeling relagated to a piece of meat?
I'm "sloppy seconds"
Excluding of course, all the wonderful goddesses on here!
My late wife had a "friend" just like yours. She said that with every guy she dated, as soon as it was over this friend moved in for the kill. She thought it was hilarious. And then she said, "If I die before you, I don't care what or who you do, but just DON'T go out with (friend)." Sure enough, not two months after my wife died (friend) started calling every few days and eventually suggested that we get together (to put it politely). That was an easy decision. 
