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And there's always someone who feels the same way and wants the same thing.
EXACTLY. You just have to find those people and make it happen. Stop going with people who don't have similar interests. There are so many people out there that sooner or later you will find people with similar interests and as you look even more you will find more.
Maybe you are with someone new now.
Yes, I do remember you complaining and being upset about him going out to the bars, staying out late at night, and alot of arguing.
I have been completely single, I def. haven't dated someone like you are describing. I am not seeing anyone now unless you count my cats.
I'm not single nor do I wish to be...
I don't think I would ever get married again...nor do I think I would get into a relationship again. Bleh, retraining. I have dogs who always love me and are great companions. I enjoy being alone too much. Not to say that I don't adore my husband...etc...but when he's away traveling or when we were younger and he was on tour...or when we were living apart when he relocated first to Chicago...I enjoyed my time to just be ... and theres not a chance that I could ever have better sex...
However, my mom and her boyfriend live 100 miles from each other...each have their own homes and it will always be that way...they spend time at each others homes...and travel together and apart...and yes, they are still 'active' . They enjoy being together but they enjoy being apart.
I do know that its been awhile since you posted, but I do remmeber your past posts. Ok.........it was definetly your cats.
Go back and pull my posts up, I didn't talk about anything like you mentioned. I dated an older man briefly that I spoke about in a thread but he didn't go out and stay out late, didin't go to the bars and we never lived together. I last lived with my husband in 2002.
I have been off the board because my computer died and I only recently got another one.
I would love some companionship but I don't think I will ever marry again. Ideally I would love to find someone special, have him buy a house in my neighborhood rather then us living together. We could spend most of our time together but then we could still have time apart. We would have our own space but be close enough that it be convenient to get together.
I just don't think I can attach that ball and chain to my ankle again.
Agree that it's a ball n' chain thing.
But what if you meet a special guy? I mean, really really special that you want to be a serious part of his life?????
I'm in no hurry to get married either; but I'm not totally closed-minded to it. If I meet that special woman 1 day, I might think about tying the knot.
Perfectly ok to be single and happy, but never say never about anything.
To be completely frank and honest, I don't trust my own judgement when it comes to choosing someone to become involved with.
Listen to your heart.
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