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I'm sure you're proud, but you knew it was wrong, too. Could have ruined someone's relationship. That's why I don't do that crap.
I was a young crazy kid and was far from the only young guy these pretty wives had between the sheets. It is true that women will marry for money and slept with young handsome men to satisfy their lust.
I noticed some of the women on this thread saying they want a "nice guy with an edge". Sorry, not too many of those exist. That's just a fantasy. Most men are nice or they aren't. Alot of the guys women think are nice with an edge never were truly nice to begin with. Everyone saw it but themselves.
I do think most nice guys are married, they are the ones who make the best and most stable husbands and fathers. Our civilization is in decline because less women today do pick those wonderful nice guys. The men who women call "spineless" are the greatest of all,,totally evolved and civilized. Many of them aren't spineless at all when you get to know them.
Nice guys don't change. You will sell your soul if you do. Be proud of who you are, you will probably meet someone. I have no bad boy appeal and am in a relationship. You might have to be patient and wait for young women to outgrow their bad boy phase, most will. If not they will get used and abused, pumped and dumped until they age out of the dating market. At that point, if they are honest with themselves, they might wish they would have given the nice guy a chance who they unfairly judged as weak and spineless.
Most of what is said in this thread about women selecting bad boy types is true. I have been cast aside and ignored by most women because I'm not the overly assertive type to run right up to a girl and get her phone number or because I dont treat women like crap. I have had several friends throughout the years who treat women awful, cheat on them, lie to them, and they just run through attractive women like its nothing. I actually find it disgusting and personally label a woman as damaged goods as soon as I discover that she's frequented the "player" type of guys.
I have been single my entire life (albeit I did move around a lot and am fairly antisocial), I workout, I make six figures, I am handsome, I love cats, I'm sensitive, intelligent, good sense of humor, and have only had one sexual partner. I will probably remain single for quite some time to come simply because most women find my stability and honesty completely boring. Most women need to get through their heads that they arent going to be dating 007, and think about what they really want out of life, which brings me to my last few statements.
Most women do not know what they want out of life and this is what causes the majority of the problems. To be fair though, most people in general dont know what they want out of life. I also believe too many people rely heavily on their partner for happiness. Here's a tip. If you arent happy with yourself, being alone, you will not be magically happy when you're in a relationship, instead you will over time rub off all of your pessismistic ways on your partner. Happy hunting, I gave up awhile ago.
In Alaska? If you paid me 7 figures you couldn't get me to live most places there. Makes here seem like some tropical treasure trove of women, and considering how bad I consider the pickin's here, that's sayin' something.
I'd be like that fool you see crossing the antarctic on foot, except if forced to live there, I'd just be crossing hell or high water to get out. Not that it's a "bad" state, it's just got such a crapola ratio I can't imagine how the average single guy there can stand it for that long.
There's middle ground between nice guys and a-holes. Nice guys can be walked on and have no confidence or leadership. *******s won't stick around after a few nights in bed.
I dont blame women for not going for the niceguys. How boring. But I dont have any respect for women who jump into bed with some guy they met a week ago because she thought it would be exciting.
You might be amazed at how many "nice guys" will stand up for themselves and others when pushed to it.
You might be amazed at how many "nice guys" will stand up for themselves and others when pushed to it.
Very true. I love to see the look on peoples faces too. It shocks the hell out of them.
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