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Is someone telling you that you shouldn't be a virgin?
I haven't seen that nor have I ever heard of it.
My preference would be to bypass a virgin by a mile. I personally want someone with more my lifestyle.
There are posters on this thread saying that if women are not virgins that they're promiscuous, basically calling women who are not virgins whores.
That type of person has will never be respected by me no matter what. They don't agree with someone else so they call them names. Notice it was not males that they called names, only women.
Not on this thread but in real life. Sometimes people may not say directly to me but are implying a broad statement, so I feel as if it is somewhat indirect. Whether someone is a virgin or not, I am not turn off for that very reason. Like you, I'm turn off because of their attitude and lack of respect.
So what? So not being in the majority means you get to treat adult male virgins like crap? What exactly do you propose these guys do? Give up on life? Blow there own brains out because they're "complete losers"?
She never called them losers nor treated them like crap. She simply said it's not normal. And, everyone can agree being a virgin is not the majority and never has been, so, by definition, it is not "normal."
I would suggest they have sex. You know, when they're ready. It seriously becomes more of an issue than an asset after you hit, say, 22.
She never called them losers nor treated them like crap. She simply said it's not normal. And, everyone can agree being a virgin is not the majority and never has been, so, by definition, it is not "normal."
I would suggest they have sex. You know, when they're ready. It seriously becomes more of an issue than an asset after you hit, say, 22.
It's not that easy for some people to talk to the opposite sex (At least in a sexually suggestive manner). I don't know why everyone thinks it is.
It's not that easy for some people to talk to the opposite sex (At least in a sexually suggestive manner). I don't know why everyone thinks it is.
It's a matter of getting used to it. It's uncomfortable and scary for almost everyone the first few times around, but it's something you get used to, and the scariness turns into a nervous sort of excitement that is pretty addictive!
The problem with y'all being older virgins in this realm is that by your mid 20s, it is expected that you are fairly used to this aspect of getting a relationship going. And if you're not, it's probably a lot more difficult.
Thinking back,it occurs to me that the older MALE virgins I have known seem to have 2 common traits.
1-They are inept,nervous,clueless and scared around women.
2- They are afraid of God.
Both reasons seem very sad to me.
What kind of man would ever aspire to be a virgin past the age of 21?
The only adult virgins are the ugly guys with no personality living in their Mother's basements, because real men want sex.
I can't believe this is even up for discussion
No guy aspires to that.
Guys try, that is what they do.
But for every desirable guys that is late, there is always a virgin woman involved.
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