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Maybe you don't have chemistry with the guys with great personalities who aren't taken, because they aren't taken, or because you don't know them well enough. You can become smitten with someone you initially weren't attracted to, when you get to know them better, esp. on a date. Maybe join a club or volunteer group that has some people your age in it, to get some platonic time around men to see if you develop an attraction over time.