Woman came on me--What to do?

[Stac2007]

Heres what you do. Since she comes in at the same time every day have your wife visit you to drop of a cup of coffee and at the same time and then introduce the mom in question to your wife. If all goes well the presence of your wife will scare her away. If it does not there is always a threesome.

[Mr.Cat]

Is she fine? Post a pic!!

[CESpeed]

You did the right thing going to your supervisor. You must protect your job. I think having your wife there one day would be good, too.

[cpg35223]

Originally Posted by Twinkle Toes

If you think this woman is going to cause problems with your job, it's best to get your supervisor aside and have a talk with him or her and tell your supervisor about the situation. Beat that woman to the punch. That way, if the woman ever does try to cause problems with your employment, your boss is fully aware of the situation and can handle it if anything negative ever comes up about you.

Yep. That's my advice, too.

Unless, of course, you think she's hot.

[LexusNexus]

Originally Posted by raycan

Here is the situation. I work at a children's center. I am a male. One of the kids mom is always flirting with me. Today the mom asked if she could call me to "talk." I asked what about and she said she wanted to "talk" to me. I said sure. I didn't know how to to take in the situation at the time. The way she was looking at me and the way she was putting an emphasis on the word "talk" I think she was meaning more than just talking. In any case she kept on asking if it was really ok for her to call me. I was afraid that one of my coworkers would hear so I didnt answer after her last comments. I ignored her. I don't know what to do. She comes there everyday to drop off her child. We would talk as what i thought were friends. Should I talk to her to clear the air? Should I just ignore the whole situation? By the way she knows I am married because I had told her. I don't know if she is married because I have never asked. I also have a fear for my job if she gets angry at me for ignoring her last comments. She left with a bitter taste in her mouth. Can someone out there please help.

What is so complex about this? Talk to her for God's sake! Tell her it's OK for her to call you and find out what she wants. Work out the details, get to the bottom of it in private, and be honest. You're married and don't want to sleep with her, so tell her that. If you're not interested, then tell her to buzz off in a nice way. She'll understand hopefully. If you're not sure, tell her that too.

I don't think your wife needs to know about this. She expects you to probably get approached. Just tell the woman you're not interested and be done with it. Why the confusion? Are you conflicted because you want to sleep with this woman, but don't know how to go about it discreetly?