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Anyone, I was YOUNG and stupid.
He did however have a gay friend who as absolutely GUTTED when we got married. He was in our wedding, the wouldn't talk to me, look at me, nothing. He came on to my husband on our wedding day after the ceremony. Hard to believe.
I'm going to write a book someday. My life has taken MORE bizarre twists then I can even imagine and I lived it. Now I avoid men, unless they are gay, I like gay guys because they are not looking for a relationship with me. I'm a disaster waiting to happen where relationships are concerned but I'm a great Hag.
I feel so sorry for people like you. My condolences.
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Originally Posted by Lindsey_Mcfarren
Anyone, I was YOUNG and stupid.
He did however have a gay friend who as absolutely GUTTED when we got married. He was in our wedding, the wouldn't talk to me, look at me, nothing. He came on to my husband on our wedding day after the ceremony. Hard to believe.
I'm going to write a book someday. My life has taken MORE bizarre twists then I can even imagine and I lived it. Now I avoid men, unless they are gay, I like gay guys because they are not looking for a relationship with me. I'm a disaster waiting to happen where relationships are concerned but I'm a great Hag.
Is that right? I kinda know a female smartas@ is not particularly appreciated , but it's an eye-opener to come across some proof. Granted, the article is on a NZ site. Let's see what our boys have to say!
"When forced to choose between humour production and humour appreciation in potential partners, women valued humour production, whereas men valued receptivity to their own humour," said Dr Martin.
More than half the men who took part in the survey revealed that a witty woman was not what they were looking for in a partner. Dr Martin said the findings suggested that men see themselves as the ones who should be delivering the lines and feel threatened by humorous women.
The revelations came as no shock to some of Britain's funniest females. Meera Syal, who co-wrote and starred in the BBC comedy show Goodness Gracious Me, said: "The idea that men are more interested in having an audience rather than sharing banter doesn't really surprise me.
"Women see men with a sense of humour as dangerous and sexy, while men see [the reverse] as threatening. Basically, what it comes down to is that humour is a mark of intelligence. Many men don't really want to be the recipient of a cutting remark in public that will make them look small or stupid."
I have a twisted, somewhat sarcastic tone to my sense of humor...maybe I should curb it, huh ! Nah, I like my sarcasm, no guy is worth giving that up...
I have a twisted, somewhat sarcastic tone to my sense of humor...maybe I should curb it, huh ! Nah, I like my sarcasm, no guy is worth giving that up...
That's the spirit!!
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