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Old 03-05-2009, 02:05 PM
 
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The tv show about the single father looking for a wife.... got me thinking....

Would anyone date a single parent?

To me, that kid at home or every other weekend is about as attractive to me as a cigarette hanging out the mouth or yellow teeth.

I might if the kid was over 18 and not living at home.

Just don't understand all those women lining up to date/marry a man w/ a kid.

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Old 03-05-2009, 02:12 PM
 
Location: Bay Area
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I would never judge someone because they are a single parent, and when I was single I did date a couple of very wonderful, attractive, successful men who happened to be dads as well. I do not see the correllation between a cigarette smoker and a single parent at all, one gives you cancer and takes away life, the other enriches it.
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:14 PM
 
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The tv show about the single father looking for a wife.... got me thinking....

Would anyone date a single parent?

To me, that kid at home or every other weekend is about as attractive as a cigarette hanging out the mouth or yellow teeth.

I might if the kid was over 18 and not living at home.

Just don't understand all those women lining up to date/marry a man w/ a kid.
Just to let you know, I'm a single parent with a young kid, and while I can understand people's reasonings for not wanting to date someone like me, your post came off as crass and left a bad taste in my mouth.
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:15 PM
 
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The tv show about the single father looking for a wife.... got me thinking....

Would anyone date a single parent?

To me, that kid at home or every other weekend is about as attractive as a cigarette hanging out the mouth or yellow teeth.

I might if the kid was over 18 and not living at home.

Just don't understand all those women lining up to date/marry a man w/ a kid.
Please do a search. This topic has been discussed a thousand times already. And to answer your question, I wouldn't chose to not date someone just because they're a single parent.
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:16 PM
 
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Never.
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:20 PM
 
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Would anyone date a single parent?

To me, that kid at home or every other weekend is about as attractive as a cigarette hanging out the mouth or yellow teeth.

I might if the kid was over 18 and not living at home.

Just don't understand all those women lining up to date/marry a man w/ a kid.
it sounds like you don't like having kids around

a lot of people DO like having kids around

parenting asks a person to develop skills like maturity, responsibility, patience, sharing, valuing a family.....those are really attractive traits to many people.

I would find it hard to date someone who did NOT have kids, whatever age they are. They tend to not understand or value what it is to be a parent. They tend to be more selfish and less flexible. That is just my experience, and by no means true for everyone.

When someone is a parent they usually have to grow as a person in a whole lot of ways that people who choose to remain childless don't.
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:50 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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Yes I would
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Old 03-05-2009, 03:03 PM
 
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I wanted to be a stepmother, but could never find a divorced/widowed man with children.

How odd it that???
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Old 03-05-2009, 03:23 PM
 
Location: CITY OF ANGELS AND CONSTANT DANGER
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yes of course. kids are great. i would not, if they had brought a child into this world and didnt take responsibility for it. thats ared flag. but someone caring for another individual is tops in my book.

Dimsum summed it up pretty well.
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Old 03-05-2009, 03:24 PM
 
Location: Dixie's Sunny Shore
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I would date a single parent (if I were single).
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