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Old 05-16-2011, 01:52 PM
 
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My boyfriend who I have been dating only a short while has started making rude sounds in bed. I am a light sleeper and so these sounds wake me up. We have a good sex life, but we fell out and haven't had sex for a week. He started mastb. in his sleep and making mmm sounds. It makes me feel bad and I worry that one night I'm going to hear him call out another woman's name. I've told him about the noises and he was embarrassed, but I know he wouldn't admit to me to dreaming about other women. I wear earplugs so I don't know what else to do. It upsets me.
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Old 05-16-2011, 01:55 PM
 
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You poor thing
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Old 05-16-2011, 01:59 PM
 
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I swear, some of our posters REALLY have too much time of their hands.
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Old 05-16-2011, 02:01 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Ali Baba and the Forty Thieves was another good fairy tale.
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Old 05-16-2011, 02:01 PM
 
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lol that is hilarious.
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Old 05-16-2011, 02:06 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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My boyfriend who I have been dating only a short while has started making rude sounds in bed. I am a light sleeper and so these sounds wake me up. We have a good sex life, but we fell out and haven't had sex for a week. He started mastb. in his sleep and making mmm sounds. It makes me feel bad and I worry that one night I'm going to hear him call out another woman's name. I've told him about the noises and he was embarrassed, but I know he wouldn't admit to me to dreaming about other women. I wear earplugs so I don't know what else to do. It upsets me.
You've only been dating a short while and you're living together? Why?

Wow this guy can't even have private DREAMS that don't INCLUDE YOU?

I hope he runs for the hills!
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Old 05-16-2011, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Louisiana
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LoL

In all seriousness, you should be glad he is mastb. As crazy as that sounds, it's true. It's a lot better than him going out and having sex with a girl you don't know because you haven't given him any for a week. That sexual energy has to go somewhere...
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Old 05-16-2011, 02:14 PM
 
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This situation sounds repulsive because he'd rather touch himself than be with the real thing... I don't get it. The guy sounds selfish and petty.
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Old 05-16-2011, 02:21 PM
 
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LoL

In all seriousness, you should be glad he is mastb. As crazy as that sounds, it's true. It's a lot better than him going out and having sex with a girl you don't know because you haven't given him any for a week. That sexual energy has to go somewhere...


I hardly think a week without sex qualifies for being unfaithful...really

I know it's natural for people to dream about others, my point is that I am hearing it every night we sleep in the same bed. We do not live together, it is when I stay over. It is the hearing about it that is upsetting me and the worry that he is going to call out someone's name.
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Old 05-16-2011, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Destrehan, Louisiana
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I swear, some of our posters REALLY have too much time of their hands.

Sounds like her boyfriend has something else in his hands.

busta
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