Men - What makes a woman good in bed? (partner, feeling, using)
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I am a woman who has always had a healthy drive and has spent years reading, experimenting & learning not only what I like but what he likes. Everyone is different so you have to make sure the other knows what you like whether by telling it or showing it. If you pay attention to reactions & responses it is not hard to figure out. I am very open minded & consider sex to be a very important part of any healthy relationship. If there is some medical reason you cant do this, there are lots of ways to share intimacy. Making love with someone you are truly in love with is the most erotic, exhilarating feeling in the world! .... nuff said...
1. Passion (can't emphasize it enough!).
2. No baggage such as guilt, revenge, shame, low self-esteem.
3. Leave the lights on or do it in daylight.
4. Active participation instead of "well, here I am, now make me feel good".
5. Understand that sex is not a competitive sport.
6. Don't constantly ask the man, "Am I better than her, huh? Am I, huh? C'mon, tell me!"
7 Forget everything; debts, TV, social status, car repairs, job problems, etc. Just concentrate on the passion.
I would say energetic, excitable, loud, open to everything. And gives me one short lapper heat race followed by a break in the pits and then a long feature race as the finale.
What makes a woman good in bed are the same things that make a man good in bed. A partner who is in tune with your body, knows where, when, and how to touch. Responds to your rhythm and breathing. Knows where to take it up a notch by feeling the way you move, breath and sigh. Being uninhibited really helps, which goes hand in hand with confidence and desire. A good lover also needs to know (quickly) what doesn't work...if that kiss on the side of the neck or gentle nibble on the waistline is causing your partner to move you away from that direction, don't keep at it.
I'd say the biggest thing that helps to make the overall experience so much more pleasurable is trust. Trust allows us to expand our comfort zones, and the more you feel comfortable with your partner and yourself the more you can explore and open up. As the shyness subsides you find yourselves exploring new territory. Discover what really pushes their buttons.
Last edited by Coolhand68; 03-18-2009 at 07:00 PM..
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