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Old 04-16-2009, 08:00 AM
 
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Listen up Ladies!!!

This man knows what he is talking about. If you can put your emotions, feelings and rude thoughts aside for a moment and read this with an open mind, you will benefit yourselves GREATLY!

Thanks! I hope many women out here will stop assuming that the man should do things the way some women role play it in their heads. Just be open and do this:

"Appreciate everything....Expect NOTHING!"

Yep! Seriously whatever! I reckon I'd be better off taking relationship advice from Attila the Hun than you two at this point.

But then if you think it's ok to call everyone that doesn't agree with your superficial take on human relationships a liar then don't expect people not to be blunt with you AND don't be surprised if people are dismissive of your opinions.

So I wish both of you well with your relationships, because frankly I think you'll need it, and I'm perfectly happy to continue on going about mine in a way that works for me. AND that doesn't include weighing up a persons ****ablity in the first few seconds of meeting. I don't view other people as sexual objects. I'm sorry that's so difficult for you and your mate to comprehend.
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Old 04-17-2009, 08:43 AM
 
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Yep! Seriously whatever! I reckon I'd be better off taking relationship advice from Attila the Hun than you two at this point.

But then if you think it's ok to call everyone that doesn't agree with your superficial take on human relationships a liar then don't expect people not to be blunt with you AND don't be surprised if people are dismissive of your opinions.

So I wish both of you well with your relationships, because frankly I think you'll need it, and I'm perfectly happy to continue on going about mine in a way that works for me. AND that doesn't include weighing up a persons ****ablity in the first few seconds of meeting. I don't view other people as sexual objects. I'm sorry that's so difficult for you and your mate to comprehend.
But I'll bet you dollars to donuts that you've had those few meetings with men who you wanted to jump their bones right there and then.
There was a black comedianne that said that she meets men all the time that are "in there" the moment they introduce each other and she immediately thought, "I just hope he doesn't say something to f-k it up". It made me laugh because I can think of plenty of times when it seemed like I started strong on a first date and it went downhill.
My wife also told me that when we first met she thought I was cute but I annoyed the hell out of her with some of my (then) opinions.
In the end, the answer is still the same; yes women look at a man and know right away whether they want to sleep with them but call them on it and they (almost always) immediately turn on you because they don't want to seem like "that type of girl".
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Old 04-17-2009, 09:38 AM
 
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After interacting with a man, I might wonder as I'm walking away. But I'm not likely to think about sex from just seeing a man across a room...unless he's staring at me.
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Old 04-17-2009, 10:12 AM
 
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After interacting with a man, I might wonder as I'm walking away. But I'm not likely to think about sex from just seeing a man across a room...unless he's staring at me.
Hey Annee!!! (My stare face)

Just kidding.
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Old 04-17-2009, 10:15 AM
 
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Yep! Seriously whatever! I reckon I'd be better off taking relationship advice from Attila the Hun than you two at this point.

But then if you think it's ok to call everyone that doesn't agree with your superficial take on human relationships a liar then don't expect people not to be blunt with you AND don't be surprised if people are dismissive of your opinions.

So I wish both of you well with your relationships, because frankly I think you'll need it, and I'm perfectly happy to continue on going about mine in a way that works for me. AND that doesn't include weighing up a persons ****ablity in the first few seconds of meeting. I don't view other people as sexual objects. I'm sorry that's so difficult for you and your mate to comprehend.
I'm assuming and I could be wrong...

You are on your what?? Second, perhaps third marriage?

We are all just having fun on here and you are just being waaaay too serious. I mean, come on. You seem like the type that your husband would joke with you and you would flat out blast him telling him YOU are not in the mood.

You need to be less offended and enjoy life. Have fun and laugh...K?
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Old 04-17-2009, 10:17 AM
 
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But I'll bet you dollars to donuts that you've had those few meetings with men who you wanted to jump their bones right there and then.
There was a black comedianne that said that she meets men all the time that are "in there" the moment they introduce each other and she immediately thought, "I just hope he doesn't say something to f-k it up". It made me laugh because I can think of plenty of times when it seemed like I started strong on a first date and it went downhill.
My wife also told me that when we first met she thought I was cute but I annoyed the hell out of her with some of my (then) opinions.
In the end, the answer is still the same; yes women look at a man and know right away whether they want to sleep with them but call them on it and they (almost always) immediately turn on you because they don't want to seem like "that type of girl".
I bet you her husband never does anything right by her standards!!

Poor guy.
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