Can a relationship that started off as an affair "work"? (wife, man)
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For starters lets get beyond the whole cheating is wrong thing... No joke. This thread is actually based on the after math. I am not talking about a short term fling thing but a relationship that began as a friendship and evolved into an affair. A few years into it both of us are getting divorced and the former mistress is wanting to try and make a life together. I really don't think it could work.
Putting it to the good people here at C-D... What do you think. Is there any hope in a relationship that begins so wrong?
No I didn't what? I am just saying. She calls all the time. I have rarely taken her call. In a moment of weakness I answered. I feel so bad cause she is heart broken. I just don't think it could work out. I thought I would "Ask the audience".
No I didn't what? I am just saying. She calls all the time. I have rarely taken her call. In a moment of weakness I answered. I feel so bad cause she is heart broken. I just don't think it could work out. I thought I would "Ask the audience".
I'm just messing with you! I sent you a DM about this last week or two weeks ago I think
It'll work for the short term. Until 6 figure hot shot lawyer comes walking into the scene 6 months down the road.
Remember, she threw away the last relationship. What makes you think she won't do the same thing to you when she falls out of love with you for another person.
Once a cheater always a cheater is what I've seen to be true.
If anything she is probably better off as a friend with benefits - no marriage, no children.
personally I think people are polygamous not monogamous. You can easily see that playing out with how much cheating goes on these days. The only people who stay truely monogamous have strong self-control to say the least. There is a lot of people who say they are monogamous and play as if they are but in reality they have their secrets - a work affair, a call girl, hookers, you name it.
I know MLV. It is not easy to hear someone you care for crying. I can't claim to be "In Love" I am just saying for me to have sex with someone there has to be something there. I am not the opportunistic F'er ya know. So I fight with it. I know in my head it wont work. I just have to convince myself she will move on and be happy.
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