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Old 04-08-2009, 11:51 AM
 
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What the hell is that supposed to mean?

I'm asking GUYS about whether or not this is true... any woman would say that their husbands are still attracted to them, but then again, I should have put "need guys' input only", since this question is directed towards men w/ kids.
There are plenty of guys here who have answered your question - NOT ONE has said he was less attracted to his wife after having had a child. One is MORE attracted to his wife. I was saying looks like your concern that men can't stay as attracted to their wives after they become mothers is not something you really need to worry about. Sure, there are probably a few weirdo's who can't handle their women now being moms, but they are in the minority.
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Old 04-08-2009, 12:01 PM
 
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I think 90% of men ARE NOT! i get tired of having sex with the same girl after a while and that's when she's in her early 20's and we're just dating! i can't imagine what marriage would be like...i'm not ready for that. obviuosly.
OH PLEASE..."90% of men who's wives become mothers ARE NOT" still attracted to their wives??? Give me a break That's not even close to being true.
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Old 04-08-2009, 12:13 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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I think 90% of men ARE NOT! i get tired of having sex with the same girl after a while and that's when she's in her early 20's and we're just dating! i can't imagine what marriage would be like...i'm not ready for that. obviuosly.
Maybe you are someone who is better of staying single. Nothing wrong with that. I think 90% is a bit high. My husband can't keep his hands off of me, and we are going on 20 years of being together. Sometimes having kids can do wonders for a woman's body
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Old 04-08-2009, 12:37 PM
 
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Maybe you are someone who is better of staying single. Nothing wrong with that. I think 90% is a bit high. My husband can't keep his hands off of me, and we are going on 20 years of being together. Sometimes having kids can do wonders for a woman's body
?? Really? Could you enlighten me on that -- as in, a woman's body is supposed to be better after having kid/ kids? How? Explain pls, your statement is a little vague.
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Old 04-08-2009, 12:40 PM
 
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I am more attracted to my wife now than ever.
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Old 04-08-2009, 12:46 PM
 
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?? Really? Could you enlighten me on that -- as in, a woman's body is supposed to be better after having kid/ kids? How? Explain pls, your statement is a little vague.
Well, she can speak for herself, but I know what she means. Some woman have very small breasts before pregnancy, but they get larger with pregnancy and often stay that way even after the baby is born and you lose all your weight. There are other physical improvements too sometimes.

Why are you so hostile with your questions? We are trying to help you!
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Old 04-08-2009, 12:47 PM
 
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Well, she can speak for herself, but I know what she means. Some woman have very small breasts before pregnancy, but they get larger with pregnancy and often stay that way even after the baby is born and you lose all your weight. There are other physical improvements too sometimes.

Why are you so hostile with your questions? We are trying to help you!
I wasn't being hostile, where did you get that? I was speaking of inquiry.
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Old 04-08-2009, 12:49 PM
 
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I wasn't being hostile, where did you get that? I was speaking of inquiry.
Well, you asked me "what in the hell" I meant on another post and your post to MLV seemed a like you were a little impatient or something. If I read it the wrong way I apologize.
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Old 04-08-2009, 01:39 PM
 
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I am more attracted to my wife now than ever.
that's awesome, props to you for that.
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Old 04-08-2009, 01:53 PM
 
Location: CA
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Sometimes having kids can do wonders for a woman's body
Really?
I saw this website called "the shape of a mother" (or something like that) & they have photos of mothers (some nude...artistically) to make a point on how much a woman's body changes with child birth. It scared me enough to add one more reason to my list on why I never want kids.
No big, droopy, deflated boobs for me, or stretch marks, or stretched out skin on the tummy.....

Glad to hear men are not so judgmental to their wives though. Both partners bodies are going to change with age, so it's best to have realistic expectations.
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