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You guys are going to love this: A co-worker called an ex and asked if they could just hang out. She went over and they were watching a movie when he started putting on the moves. She thought about stopping him but then she calcuated the timeframe and realized she was probably ovulating and since she wanted to have a child anyway, she let nature take its course. Now she's impatiently waiting for enough time to go by and see if she got what she wanted out of their encounter.I'll bet he'll wished he hadn't pushed things when she gives him the news. ROTFLMAO.
Can you say "CONDOM"?? I raised a boy and from the time he was old enough to look at a girl, we talked about CONDOMS. I told him if he was too "shy" or embarrassed to go in and purchase condoms, then he wasn't old enough to be fooling around. Oh, I am 61, female and think that it is the responsibility of both partners to be protected and Rolling On The Floor Laughing My Arse Off is not the thing to do when you or a friend finds out he has someone pregnant. This young lady was deceitful and the "friend" DUMB for not having condoms around...be smarter next time an ex stops by.
A trojan in the pocket is worth a millions hindsight moments later on.
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Don't need it, I had vasectomy
But I can swear women have a 7th sense and can make out I have been operated,
because since my vasectomy strangely I had a significant drop in partners...
Well, both people in the scenario are idiots. But here's the thing: Did the woman in this situation say, "It's okay, I'm protected"?
Because I know three different guys (My BIL, a cousin, and an acquaintance) whose girlfriends conveniently stopped taking birth control because they wanted to seal the deal, so to speak. I'm not saying that this is a tactic most women use--far from it. But it's a tactic that some women don't have qualms about resorting to. So even if she claims that all that stuff is taken care of, wear protection unless you just want to pay child support for the next eighteen years.
Well, both people in the scenario are idiots. But here's the thing: Did the woman in this situation say, "It's okay, I'm protected"?
Because I know three different guys (My BIL, a cousin, and an acquaintance) whose girlfriends conveniently stopped taking birth control because they wanted to seal the deal, so to speak. I'm not saying that this is a tactic most women use--far from it. But it's a tactic that some women don't have qualms about resorting to. So even if she claims that all that stuff is taken care of, wear protection unless you just want to pay child support for the next eighteen years.
or more, a lot of states are making support laws that require support to continue if the child goes to college directly after high school, the oldest i've heard was up to 24 (i'm not even 24 yet!)
I don't feel sorry for anyone (male or female) that fails to use protection when they have no interest in having a child. Awww, poor you! When you have casual flings like that you can't trust either party. You can't trust the woman when she says she is on the pill. A condom would have been a good option here. Along with PULLING OUT before you ejaculate
heh.. you know what they call people who use the "pull out" method?
parents. 75% effectiveness (if done correctly EVERY time) is not my idea of reliable.
I've been using that method for nine years now
LOL, anyway, I meant using the pulling out method ALONG with also using a condom. Double up the protection. It would be nice if the woman was on the pill to. Triple the protection.
or more, a lot of states are making support laws that require support to continue if the child goes to college directly after high school, the oldest i've heard was up to 24 (i'm not even 24 yet!)
My son (fruit of a botched half-hearted "coitus interruptus" from me btw) is 23 , is going to college, and I still pay (and will be paying in the foresseable future) alimony to his mother (that I didn't see since a few years but who never forget to call me to wish me a Happy New Year and ask me not to forget my checks each January!).
The good side is that she is not voracious, she asks me only a token support (200$ a month) but on the other hand, when my son needs something extra like paying the gym or vacations I do give him directly some financial support and of course he comes to eat for free at home. Fortunately he is doing some menial jobs like babysitting or security guard, so he earns his own "beer money"! (he has no rent to pay, he still lives with mama/girlfriends flat weekends).
I would say he has a much better life than I have at his age (and a ton of pals!), all the power to him! after all, he is my son!(and taught his ol'dad some computer tricks , to differentiate between mp3/ipod, etc)
My buddy just went through something like this. He had a vasectomy done a few years ago. The gal he was seeing tells him "I am late." he didn't really respond. Made an appointment the next day to get his count checked, and what do you know. No little swimmers. He tells her about the vasectomy and shows her the results. All of a sudden it was just stress that made her late.
Kids are a big responsibility and should not be had or used as a tool.
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75% effectiveness (if done correctly EVERY time) is not my idea of reliable.
Double up the protection. It would be nice if the woman was on the pill to. Triple the protection.
